Category Archives: Contentment

Fighting Complacency in Contentment – A Leadership Battle…

02 Friday Feb 2024

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A few days ago, I was talking with a friend, and we got on the concept of contentment and how it works with __________ (You can fill in the blank with any area of life). We spoke specifically about contentment in sports and how it affects teams. Still, it can be anything… personal, family, businesses, schools, etc.

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Now, contentment is a good thing. It fosters a state of satisfaction with one’s circumstances. At the core of contentment, it creates a peaceful harmony of acceptance in the present moment. Think along the lines of gratitude and being grateful for what one has instead of constantly wanting something else that doesn’t bring any more value to your life or those around you. In this sense, contentment carries positivity, and life has meaning.

I also believe that contentment serves as a shield against comparison and envy. Think about TV and social media ads, better yet, think about other people telling you what you need… they are everywhere, telling us that we need this or that to make us happy or more happy. In a world where we are told we are not good enough, being able to celebrate one’s achievements and accomplishments creates a culture of self-fulfillment.

However… despite its merits, contentment can quickly become a deterrent and a hindrance. The word… complacency; it’s not something that you want to be associated with you in a sentence. When complacency encroaches in one’s life, it will catch you and fester. Complacency leads to losing the drive to pursue personal and team goals with growth, challenging the status quo. A comfort zone is created where there becomes a reluctance to step outside, and a barrier to progress now exists.

How does contentment and complacency work with leadership in a Christian worldview mindset… While contentment is seen as a virtue that stems from trust in God’s provision and sovereignty, complacency can be viewed negatively, implying a lack of diligence and commitment to fulfilling one’s responsibilities. Ultimately, the Christian perspective on contentment and complacency in leadership emphasizes the importance of aligning one’s values and priorities with God’s purposes while remaining open to His guidance and transformative work in both individual lives and organizations.

As we think about this idea with our leadership, we must decide what we will make of our contentment. Is it good enough that we still want to make strides for personal growth? Or, will contentment slowly become complacency, hindering most areas of our lives? Both can become a power that pulls, but only one side will tear you apart. And… how we answer this as educational leaders shapes our future more than we know.

Let’s go fight the good fight of leadership. Someone has to…

Go be a great educator and leader today… Our future needs it…

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2024 J Clay Norton

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Context in Leadership? It’s Needed!

27 Friday Oct 2023

Posted by in Actions, Andy Griffith, Consistency, Contentment, Context, Empower, Leader, Leadership

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Currently, I’m reading Simply Trinity by Matthew Barrett. While it is a book on understanding the theology of the Trinity, it’s easy to find leadership in almost everything if you look.

Barrett’s statement in the book was a quote by D. A. Carson, “A text without context is a pretext for a prooftext.” I had to reread that statement about three times and even reread the section leading into it to wrap my thoughts together. Once I tied a knot around it, I wondered how often this happens with everyday leadership? How many times do leaders miss the context?

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I think there is profound significance in the statement. It underscores the importance of understanding that leadership is not just about following a set of rules or adhering to a fixed flow chart of “what happens when” but about comprehending the nuances in which leadership decisions are made. A situation taken out of context becomes a pretext that needs proof.

Every day, leaders wake up, get into their leadership vehicle, and ride the day’s journey. Very few times is the journey the same. When traveling, the scenery of the landscape always changes. Your really good leaders are those who can effectively navigate the road. With so many twists and turns, an awareness of context is required. What works once in a situation may not be appropriate in another; context is essential.

For my Andy Griffith Show fans, take this into context… 🙂

Deputy Barney Fife… We all know those in leadership positions who are rigid and only adhere to that flow chart of “what happens when” without ever considering the context. When this happens, they overlook that context is a dynamic and evolves. This is where the “pretext for a proof text” comes into play. Failing to acknowledge the context, leaders find themselves attempting to apply a “one-size-fits-all” solution, and we all know how that works out. They lead with a control mindset which is often out of fear. Leaders who believe they are truly in control only lead to poor decision making.

Sheriff Andy Taylor… Successful leaders recognize the ever-changing nature of leadership. They take the time to understand their context and adapt their approach accordingly. This adaptability is what sets them apart. It allows them to draw upon their knowledge and experience, much like a prooftext, to provide relevant and effective guidance.

Also, effective leaders understand that context ain’t (bad grammar to prove a point) solely about external factors. It also involves understanding the unique perspectives, strengths, and weaknesses of the individuals they lead. This seems to be a lost commodity in leadership everywhere right now. By not understanding, they will never be able to hone their leadership approach to motivating and empowering others. “A text without context is a pretext for a proof text” wraps up a critical truth in leadership. True leadership goes beyond a rule book. It involves the ability to interpret and respond to the journey. Effective leaders understand this. Knowing the context of a situation is like having a blank sheet of paper, where leaders can write their leadership with an awareness that sets them apart.

Basically, lead like Andy, not Barney…

Go be a great educator and leader today… Our future needs it…

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2023 J Clay Norton

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Boy, All I Need Is One Thing To Make Me Happy

27 Thursday Apr 2017

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  • Successful people are always looking for opportunities to help others. Unsuccessful people are always asking, “What’s in it for me?” –Brian Tracy

    I found this the other day while going through my “motivational folder.”  If I remember correctly my Dad gave it to me when I was a teenager.  It’s amazing the “stuff” you hang on to…Alot of truisms here.

    Remember what we are striving for… THINK LEADERSHIP

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    Boy, All I Need Is One Thing To Make Me Happy

    I wish it were winter time, I’m so tired of this heat.

    If it would just snow again.

    Is this snow ever going to melt?

    If I had a 10-speed bike, I’d be happy. That’s all I want. A 10-speed bike.

    Boy, will I be happy when I get a car. No more begging for rides.

    I’d be happy if I could stay out later at night. One hour later, is that too much to ask?

    I will never be happy until I’m going steady.

    Once I’m out of high school, I’ll be happy.

    I need a job. If I could just find a job, I’d never complain again. I want to go to college.

    I’ve got to get out of these dorms. The rules are getting me down. Once I get an apartment, I’ll be happy as a lark.

    I need a place of my own. I want to get married, settle down. I’m tired of roaming and living alone.

    I’ll be happy once I’m married. If only we had more money.

    Children will make me happy. As soon as I have a baby, I’ll be satisfied.

    If you could only talk, I wish you were still a baby.

    If you buy me a second car, I promise, nothing else, ever.

    A dishwasher. How can I keep up with all these dishes? I need a dishwasher.

    Boy, I’ll be happy when the kids go to school. I wish the kids would come home.

    I’ve got it! A camper will make us happy. We could sneak off, enjoy one another. Motorcycles, that’s it.  Maybe a boat.

    Once we get out of debt, we’ll be happy.

    I need to get more involved in the community. If I just had a church responsibility.

    I wish I had more time to spend with the family. I’d be happier. They’d be happier.

    I want a divorce. Then I’ll be happy. I’d never ask for another thing if I could just be free again.

    If I could just find a steady companion, someone to talk to. That’s all I need. A second chance at marriage. I’d make it this time.  A second chance. Is that asking too much?

    I’d be happy if the children were more independent. Our kids never come to see us. Always off Heaven knows where. After all we have given them, they out to at least visit on holidays.

    Listen, if we had a few grandchildren, we would never ask for anything else.

    Why can’t they understand, we don’t want to raise our grandchildren.

    When was the last time the grandkids came to visit?

    We won’t be satisfied until we set aside money for retirement. I would rest easier knowing our cemetery plots are selected and paid for. Once we retire and slow down, we’ll be happy.

    There is nothing to do, I need a hobby.

    I wish I felt better. I’m always taking medicine. If I felt better, I’d never complain again. I’d be happy if we could catch up on the doctor bills.

    We better sell this big house. We’ll move into an apartment. Things will be easier in a small place.

    Don’t you miss the old house?

    I wish the children would stop by and visit more often. I’m so lonely. A few more visitors would make me happy.

    Can’t people understand? I need my rest. I’ll be happy once I get into a good rest home.

    I wish I weren’t so sleepy all the time. I’d be happy if I were young again.

    I wish I had someone to talk to. I’d be perfectly happy if I had a friend.

    I want to sleep. Rest would make me happy. If this would all just end, then….then, I’d be happy.

     

    As a rule, Man’s a fool.

    When it’s hot, he wants it cool.

    When it’s cool, he wants it hot.

    Always wanting what it’s not.

    Never wanting what he’s got.