Do you ever get annoyed with what others say? Maybe it’s even those “one-liners.” Yep, that’s me. I get annoyed, but I have great “one-liners.” Anyway… Hopefully a little levity today and a side of seriousness.
This past Monday, I was listening to This Morning – America’s First News with Gordan Deal on the way to school. He and Mike Gavin were talking about an article titled, ‘Annoying’ people say these 75 things, according to Reddit users. Well, I can tell you, I turned up the volume because I know a lot of annoying people and wanted to hear what the sayings were…
Here are ten that I pulled from the list…
“I don’t mean to be rude, but …”
“Let’s agree to disagree.”
“No offense, but …”
“It is what it is.”
“Here’s the deal.”
“If I were you …”
“Must be nice.”
“I’m the type of person …”
“It’s all good.”
A few of my favorites I did not see on the list were…
“Can I be honest with you?” (Wait, that means you have lied to me before?)
“Let me be frank with you…” (No, don’t be frank, just be you)
“Fake it til you make it.” (For those of you who know me, this is the worst of all annoying sayings, especially in a leadership position.)
In 2020, I wrote a blog on Things Leaders Should Not Say… As I read the entire list in the article, I thought about that blog, and yes, when leaders say certain things, it can be very annoying. There are even a few annoying sayings on the 75-list that are included in the blog.
The list of 75 will make you think of what you and others often say. Yes, there are a few on the list that I have said and say as well (I counted ten). I laughed when I read some of them because I immediately thought of certain people who are notorious for saying one, if not more, of them. And, yes… depending on the person, it can be very annoying.
I guess that is the determining factor; who it is and what type of relationship you have with them. What some see as annoying, others see as funny. It seems that I’m guilty of both, but I’m ok with it.
If nothing else, as with all things in life, time is too short. Perception is not reality; rose-colored glasses only tint stuff as we want it to be. Society gets annoyed when we do not think and act like it wants us to, and there lies the problem; relativism at work… Respect is not, but should be, a two-way street. It gets annoying when it is not.
What I cannot do is control what others say. I don’t have to let what others say impact my feelings. Do I get annoyed with what others say? You bet I do. It wears me out mentally, but ultimately, it’s my decision. So… stop saying annoying statements or quit being annoyed? What am I to do?
Let’s go fight the good fight of leadership. Someone has to…
Go be a great educator and leader today… Our future needs it…
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©2022 J Clay Norton
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