Pointing the Thumb Instead of the Finger

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The other day, while driving home, we were listening to a podcast discussing the struggles of a college football program. Much of the conversation centered on the head coach and the problems surrounding the team’s lack of success. As the discussion continued, one of the commentators made an observation that caught my attention. Perhaps instead of pointing fingers at everyone else, the coach needed to spend some time pointing the thumb at himself.

That statement stayed with me because I believe it speaks to something much larger than football. It speaks to one of the most important responsibilities of leadership.

Over the years, I have observed that one of the easiest things for a leader to do when something goes wrong is to point a finger at someone else. We can find fault with employees, question the decisions of others, or identify circumstances beyond our control. Sometimes those concerns are legitimate. However, I have come to believe that before we point the finger at someone else, we must first be willing to point the thumb at ourselves.

Pointing the finger is easy. Pointing the thumb requires humility, honesty, and a willingness to examine our own actions. Did I communicate my expectations clearly? Did I provide the resources and support necessary for others to succeed? Was I available when someone needed guidance? Did I recognize a developing problem but fail to address it? Perhaps most importantly, did my own decisions or lack of action contribute to the situation?

These are not always pleasant questions, but they are necessary ones.

I have spent enough years in leadership to understand that not every problem is the direct result of something a leader has done or failed to do. People make their own decisions, and individuals must be held accountable for their actions. Pointing the thumb does not mean accepting blame for everything that happens. It means examining our own responsibility before assigning responsibility to someone else.

There is also something important about the example this sets for those we lead. When people see a leader acknowledge a mistake or accept responsibility, it creates an environment where honesty becomes more important than protecting one’s image. When leaders consistently look for someone to blame, people often become more concerned about defending themselves than finding solutions.

One lesson I continue to appreciate about leadership is that having authority does not mean always being right. A position may give us the authority to make decisions, but it does not exempt us from examining those decisions. In fact, the greater our leadership responsibility, the greater our obligation to reflect upon our own actions.

The next time something goes wrong, resist the temptation to immediately identify who is at fault. Examine your own leadership. Ask what you could have done differently, what you should have recognized sooner, and what responsibility you need to accept. Then do something about it.

Leadership is not demonstrated by how quickly we point out the failures of others, but by how willingly we confront our own shortcomings.

So, the next time you find yourself pointing a finger at someone else, remember that three fingers are pointing back at you (I’ll let you visualize that on your own). Before you demand that others do better, make certain you have challenged yourself to do the same.

Great leadership begins when we stop looking for someone to blame and start asking what we can do to make things better. Point the thumb first.

As you step into your role today, remember that you are not just an educator and leader but a shaper of the future. Your actions and decisions profoundly impact the lives of those you guide. Go, be the great educator and leader that our future needs.

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2026 J Clay Norton

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What an “A” Should Make Us Rethink – What Clinton’s schools can teach us about achievement, community, and our own assumptions…

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I have spent more than 30 years in education, and I know what it means to the people in a school district when their work receives recognition. Teachers spend their days helping students understand something they could not understand yesterday. Administrators work to support their teachers and make decisions that serve their schools. Families want to know their children are learning and being given opportunities to succeed. When a district earns an A, those people have good reason to be proud.

My interest in Clinton is personal. I spent my last 18 years in public education in the Clinton Public School District, so I bring that experience to my reading of these results.

Every year when Mississippi’s accountability results are released, I spend time taking a deep dive into them. I enjoy looking at the particulars and sorting the results by the different criteria in the accountability model. That closer look helps me understand how districts arrive at their grades and what stands out in their performance. This year, Clinton’s results again gave me good reason to pay attention.

The report lists 31 A-rated entries, including Forrest County Agricultural High School, which serves only grades 9–12. For the comparisons in this article, I have excluded Forrest County Agricultural High School because its results represent a narrower range of grade levels. The comparisons therefore include the 30 remaining A-rated school districts.

I also recognize that comparing districts is not always an apples-to-apples exercise. The same letter grade does not mean districts serve identical populations, have equivalent resources, or face the same responsibilities. Mississippi’s accountability system considers proficiency, student growth, graduation, and other measures of readiness, so I look beyond the A to understand the results behind it.

Clinton’s record of achievement reaches further back than the last five accountability releases. The district earned recognition under earlier systems that used classifications such as High Performing and Star District, and its strong record continued as Mississippi moved to letter grades. Although the assessments, calculations, and standards for earning those ratings have changed, Clinton has demonstrated sustained achievement across those changes.

What catches my attention about Clinton is the combination of its sustained achievement and the work taking place across its schools. The district finished second statewide this year and has placed among Mississippi’s top five districts in every accountability release from 2022 through 2026. I believe that record deserves to carry more weight than assumptions people may hold about the district or the community it serves.

Clinton’s teachers, school leaders, students, and families have earned credit for sustaining that achievement year after year. Its mathematics and elementary results give me specific reasons to look more closely at the instruction students receive. I believe there is value in understanding how that work connects across classrooms, grade levels, and schools.

Among those 30 districts, Clinton had the highest mathematics proficiency at 80.1% and the highest mathematics growth at 85.5%. As someone who began his career teaching mathematics, I am fascinated by the pedagogy behind those results. I believe others need to understand how teachers build students’ knowledge, how instruction connects from one grade to the next, and how school leaders support that work.

Clinton’s elementary schools provide a good place to begin looking. In the 2026 assessment results, Eastside’s fourth-grade English language arts and fifth-grade mathematics results ranked first statewide. Those accomplishments give me something specific to consider when examining the quality of instruction in the district’s elementary classrooms.

Community income is also part of understanding the circumstances in which schools operate. My comparison of the Census Bureau’s latest five-year household income estimates, released in 2026 and covering 2020 through 2024, places Clinton toward the upper end of the A-rated districts examined. Those estimates include households without children attending public schools and do not describe every student’s circumstances. I believe that context belongs alongside a closer examination of the instruction, expectations, and support students receive.

An A rating makes Clinton an appealing place for families considering a move to the area or a change in schools. Those conversations often focus on the district’s results without giving much attention to the responsibility of serving students who arrive at different points in their education. Clinton’s teachers serve students who have been in the district since their earliest school years alongside students who began their education elsewhere. Building on the foundation of one group while understanding and responding to the preparation of another requires work that deserves recognition.

That responsibility is part of why I have often wondered about a student who did not begin in Clinton’s pre-K program. By what grade would that student need to enter Clinton’s schools to develop the foundation reflected in these results? I think of that as becoming “Clintonized,” or coming to understand the Clinton way of learning and the expectations that go with it. I am interested in how students come to understand what their teachers expect, how they approach their schoolwork, and how the instruction they receive in one grade prepares them for the next.

How does the experience of a student who enters in third grade compare with that of a student who has attended Clinton’s schools since pre-K? What about a student who arrives in middle school with a different educational background or gaps in what that student has been taught? Students bring knowledge, abilities, and experiences of their own, and the school they previously attended does not tell the whole story of their preparation. I believe there is value in understanding how Clinton’s teachers identify what those students know, provide the support they need, and help them work toward the expectations established for their classmates.

Following students over time would make a fascinating longitudinal study, particularly if it considered their achievement when they entered, the support they received, and their progress during their years in Clinton. The district’s overall results cannot tell me how students who transfer into Clinton perform as a group or how long they need to develop that foundation. Examining those experiences could help identify the instructional practices and support that help students succeed, regardless of when they enter the district.

Those questions come from an appreciation for what Clinton is accomplishing. There is value in understanding how teachers work together, how they respond when students struggle, and how expectations are communicated across classrooms and schools. There may be something in that work that another teacher or district could use to help its own students.

Clinton’s results also give me a reason to examine how assumptions influence conversations about schools. Sometimes what people think they know about a district shapes expectations before its results receive any consideration. I believe students and educators deserve to have their work considered before public perception shapes conclusions about their schools.

The reality is that schools serve the children who live in their communities. Each morning, those children get off the bus or are dropped off in the car rider line, walk through the school doors, and enter classrooms where teachers are teaching and students are learning. They bring their experiences, their abilities, and the things they need help understanding. Their teachers get to work helping them take the next step.

A final grade cannot show every explanation a teacher tries, every adjustment made to a lesson, or every conversation that helps a student keep working. The results do give me a reason to appreciate what students and educators are accomplishing together. Clinton’s students are demonstrating what they know and making academic progress, and I believe those accomplishments deserve to shape how people talk about the district and our community.

After more than three decades in education, I remain interested in understanding how schools help a student grasp something that once seemed out of reach. Clinton’s schools give me a reason to take that work seriously and learn from the people doing it. Their consistent achievement deserves attention and appreciation.

Clinton has earned its recognition. I hope readers will take the time to understand the work behind it and allow those accomplishments to inform what they believe about its schools. I also want to thank the teachers, school leaders, students, families, and the Clinton community as a whole for their part in making that achievement possible. This success belongs to the people whose work and support sustain our schools, and it gives our community something to celebrate together.

As you step into your role today, remember that you are not just an educator and leader but a shaper of the future. Your actions and decisions profoundly impact the lives of those you guide. Go, be the great educator and leader that our future needs.

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2026 J Clay Norton

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A Tribute to Coach Stan Jones… Leadership Beyond the Game

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My first true encounter with Coach Stan Jones was in 1994, when I interviewed at Shoney’s with him to be his assistant basketball coach. We talked about basketball, life, and just about everything in between. Near the end of our conversation, he asked me one last question: “If you heard someone talking bad about us at a nearby booth, would you get up and say something to them?”

I told him I would.

When Coach Jones got into town this past Wednesday, we had supper together, and I reminded him of that interview. I told him I still did not know whether my answer to his question was what got me the job. He replied, “You got the job, didn’t you?”

Yes, Coach, I did, and all these years later, I am still grateful.

I have thought about that question many times since 1994, and I have used it in every interview I have been part of since. At first, I just wanted to see what people would say. Believe it or not, the way someone answers tells you quite a bit about them. I believe Coach Jones wanted to know whether I would stand up for the people I worked with and be loyal to the team. I went to Shoney’s hoping to get a coaching job, with no idea that I was also meeting someone who would influence me as a basketball coach, husband, dad, educator, and leader for the rest of my life.

The next evening, hundreds of people gathered at the Mississippi Sports Hall of Fame to honor Coach Jones and raise money for the Sherard Shaw Foundation for Pediatric Cancer Research and the McLean Fletcher Center. His basketball coaching career gave everyone plenty to celebrate, and seeing so many people there showed how far his influence has reached.

Coach Jones’s coaching résumé is impressive. He led Jackson Academy to back-to-back overall state championships before coaching at the University of Miami, with the Washington Wizards in the NBA, at Mississippi State, and then for more than two decades at Florida State. In 2019, he was inducted into the inaugural class of the College Basketball Assistant Coach Hall of Fame. He has coached at levels most of us only watch from a distance. I admire those accomplishments, and I value what he taught the people who worked and played for him even more.

I can say without a doubt that Coach Jones is one of the best coaches I have ever seen. His playbook was about as thick as a Sears catalog and probably could have been used as a boat anchor. I studied it all the time because he expected every player to know not only what they were supposed to do, but what the other four players were supposed to do as well. He wanted us to understand how the whole team worked together.

Then there were his motivational talks. Listening to Coach Jones could give you chill bumps. His players would have run through a wall for him because they knew how much he believed in them and how much he expected of them. Even while challenging us to give our best, he showed us what servant leadership should look like, and was the model of what transformational leadership is.

Coach Jones knew far more than plays. Inside and outside the gym, he held people to high expectations and treated them with respect. He valued execution, and he valued the people doing the work. You never had to guess where you stood with him. He could be brutally honest, but he was fair, and he was willing to listen when you saw something differently. As a young assistant, I was learning how to coach basketball, and I was learning just as much about how to work with people.

Coach Jones would often say, “Be the best,” “Don’t stop believing,” and “Never forget where you came from.” I have carried those words with me long after my coaching days. They have encouraged me through challenges in education and leadership, and they have mattered at home as well. He pushed people to reach for more while reminding them to stay grounded and remember those who helped them along the way.

He also showed me how much a person can accomplish without holding the head coach’s title. Coach Jones had already been a successful head coach when he became a college assistant. For nearly three decades, he helped build programs, prepare teams, and develop players from that role. His example taught me to give my best to the work in front of me and to invest in the people beside me.

As a lifelong mentor, Stan has helped shape the future through the many people he has influenced. We need to remember the value of that kind of leadership and offer it to others. Leadership needs more people like Coach Stan Jones.

I have shared this quote from the movie The Emperor’s Club before, and I believe it speaks to Coach Jones’s influence too:

“A great teacher has little external history to record. His life goes over into other lives. These men are pillars in the intimate structure of our schools. They are more essential than its stones or beams, and they will continue to be a kindling force and a revealing power in our lives.”

I hope you have a mentor in your life like the ones I have had and still have. We need people who will invest in us, regardless of our age, so that we can invest in others. That is true in coaching, education, and every other part of life.

When I think back to that table at Shoney’s, I smile. I was in awe of Coach Jones then, and I was just beginning to learn who he was. His last interview question was about standing up for a team. His example over the years has taught me much more: to be dependable, to give my best, to keep believing, and to care for people beyond the role they play.

Coach Jones, thank you for giving me the job. Thank you even more for the conversations, the lessons, your example, and a friendship I will always value. I am a better person because our paths crossed. Seeing hundreds of people gather to honor him reminded me that many others could say the same. I hope I can pass along even a smidgen of the influence he has given me.

As you step into your role today, remember that you are not just an educator and leader but a shaper of the future. Your actions and decisions profoundly impact the lives of those you guide. Go, be the great educator and leader that our future needs.

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2026 J Clay Norton

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Have We Forgotten What Good Leadership Feels Like?

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Most educators want to work around good leadership. Why would we not? We want leaders who communicate clearly, make thoughtful decisions, support their people, and remain focused on what is best for students. We want to be part of an organization where leadership strengthens us rather than drains us.

This idea came to me, once again, while reading Sinclair Ferguson’s book, Things Unseen: One Year of Reflections on the Christian Life. In one of the devotionals, Ferguson writes about the importance of hearing good preaching and maintaining a desire to be around it. After reading that particular devotional, I thought, Yes, and could the same not be said about leadership?

So…

There is nothing wrong with wanting good leadership. In fact, good leadership is essential to the health of a school, district, university, or any other educational organization, or any organization, for that matter. However, I sometimes wonder whether we give as much attention to how we respond to leadership as we give to the quality of the leadership we receive.

We are often quick to evaluate our leaders. We examine their decisions, question their communication, and notice the areas in which they fall short. Some of that evaluation is necessary. Educational leaders should be held accountable, and poor leadership should never be excused simply because someone holds a position of authority.

At the same time, leadership is not experienced in a vacuum. Certainly, there are leaders who can suck the air out of a room, but the attitudes of those being led also matter. We can become so accustomed to analyzing everything a leader says or does that we stop genuinely listening. We hear the words, but we do not take them in. We attend the meeting, read the email, and sit through the professional development, yet we remain detached from the message. Instead of asking what we can learn or how we can contribute, we immediately begin identifying what is wrong.

There is an important difference between discernment and cynicism.

Discernment helps us recognize what is effective, what needs improvement, and how we can move forward. Cynicism assumes that nothing worthwhile is coming. Once cynicism settles into an organization, even good leadership can become difficult to recognize. People may become so accustomed to weak, inconsistent, or self-serving leadership that they gradually lower their expectations. Eventually, they begin to say, “It is what it is,” and that may be one of the most dangerous statements in educational leadership.

When people accept ineffective leadership as normal, they stop expecting clarity. They stop asking for meaningful direction. They learn to survive without encouragement, collaboration, or a shared sense of purpose. They find ways to accomplish their work in isolation, depending on a few trusted colleagues rather than the larger organization. Over time, their appetite for good leadership begins to disappear because they have forgotten what healthy leadership feels like.

Then they encounter a truly effective leader.

They meet someone who listens before speaking, communicates with honesty, and makes decisions based on mission rather than ego. They see a leader who provides both support and accountability, recognizes the value of others, and is willing to make difficult decisions without losing compassion. Suddenly, they realize how long they have been functioning without the leadership they needed. It is almost as if dead skin begins falling away and they are finally able to breathe again.

Good leadership has a way of reminding people what leadership is supposed to be.

It creates an environment where people want to grow. It does not demand loyalty through fear or position; it earns trust through consistency, humility, competence, and care. People want to be around that kind of leadership because it brings out something better in them. They think more deeply, collaborate more freely, and become more willing to take responsible risks. They are not merely completing tasks. They begin to see how their work connects to a purpose larger than themselves.

However, being around good leadership also brings responsibility. We cannot expect leaders to communicate while refusing to listen. We cannot ask them to invite collaboration while remaining unwilling to participate. We cannot request honest feedback and then become defensive when it is offered. If good leadership is going to nourish an organization, the people within that organization must be willing to receive it, reflect on it, and respond to it.

This does not mean that followers should agree with every decision or remain silent when concerns arise. Healthy organizations need thoughtful questions, respectful disagreement, and honest feedback. Good leaders should welcome those things. But there is a difference between constructive engagement and constant resistance. One helps an organization improve; the other slowly weakens its capacity to move forward.

Perhaps all of us need to ask two questions.

First, what kind of leadership am I providing?

Am I offering the people around me clarity, encouragement, direction, and meaningful opportunities to grow? Do my words and actions strengthen the organization, or are the people I lead forced to find what they need somewhere else?

Second, what kind of follower am I being?

Am I listening with the intention of understanding? Am I willing to receive correction, consider another perspective, and contribute to the direction of the organization? Or have I become so detached that I automatically dismiss what I hear?

Educational organizations need good leadership, but they also need people who recognize it, receive it, and respond to it. The longer we remain around healthy leadership, the more our understanding of leadership should deepen. We should develop a stronger desire for integrity, clarity, service, accountability, and purpose, not only from those who lead us, but also within ourselves.

Ultimately, we should want to be around good leadership because good leadership helps us become better educators, better colleagues, and better leaders. It restores our belief in what an organization can become when people are valued, the mission remains central, and leadership is exercised for the good of others.

But perhaps the greatest evidence that we have truly experienced good leadership is not simply that we enjoyed being around it.

It is that, because of it, we learned how to lead others better. And… if you asking what does good leadership look like? Look to Jesus.

As you step into your role today, remember that you are not just an educator and leader but a shaper of the future. Your actions and decisions profoundly impact the lives of those you guide. Go, be the great educator and leader that our future needs.

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2026 J Clay Norton

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