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Things You Hope For Make You Act

21 Friday Aug 2026

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I heard a statement the other day that has stayed with me: “Things you hope for make you act.”

Let me offer an analogy. I have never thought I could learn how to ride a bicycle by sitting on the couch and watching a video about it. At some point, I would have to get up, get on the bicycle, and start pedaling. I might wobble. I might fall. I might even decide there has to be an easier way to learn. But if I really wanted to learn how to ride, eventually I would have to do something.

The more I have thought about that analogy, the more I believe the same principle applies to hope and, particularly, to educational leadership. We can hope for something, talk about it, read about it, and even develop a fairly clear picture of what we would like it to look like, but at some point our hope has to influence what we actually do. We spend a great deal of time in education talking about what we hope will happen. We hope our students succeed, our teachers grow and feel supported, our schools improve, our families become more engaged, and the decisions we make today create better opportunities tomorrow. Those are worthwhile hopes, and I am not sure any of us could lead very long without believing that something can be better than it is today.

However, the real question is whether the things we say we hope for are important enough to cause us to act. Just as I cannot learn to ride a bicycle while sitting on the couch, I cannot expect meaningful change in a school simply because I believe that change would be good. At some point, hope has to influence my decisions, my priorities, and the work I am willing to do. Eventually, if I really hope to go somewhere, I have to get off the couch and start pedaling.

Benjamin Franklin captured much of this idea in a few words when he wrote, “Well done is better than well said.” In education, we certainly do not suffer from a shortage of good intentions or good ideas. We develop mission statements, establish goals, write improvement plans, attend meetings, and spend countless hours discussing what needs to happen. All of those things have value, but they only matter if what we say we hope for eventually becomes visible in what we are willing to do.

 

Speaker addressing students in a library beneath an inspiring hope and leadership banner

If I hope every child becomes a strong reader, that hope should influence how I use resources, protect instructional time, examine student progress, and support teachers. If I hope good teachers remain in the profession, then that hope should affect how I listen to them, encourage them, develop them, and respond when they struggle. If I hope every student feels known and valued, then that hope should become evident in the decisions I make and in the culture I help create.

Horace Mann, one of the most influential figures in American education, wrote, “Genius may conceive but patient labor must consummate.” His words remind us that seeing what needs to be done is only part of leadership. We also have to be willing to stay with the work long enough to move what we hope for closer to reality. That work may be difficult, progress may be slower than we would like, and there will certainly be times when our approach needs to change, but hope gives us a reason to keep moving toward what we believe is possible.

Perhaps that is one of the most important connections between hope and educational leadership. Hope allows us to see what could be, but genuine hope should also affect what we are willing to do today to help make that possibility a reality. If the things we say we hope for never influence our priorities or our actions, then perhaps we need to ask ourselves whether we really hope for them at all.

So maybe one of the questions we should occasionally ask ourselves as educational leaders is not simply, “What am I hoping for?” Instead, we might ask, “What is my hope causing me to do?”

Because if the things we hope for never affect the way we lead, the decisions we make, or the work we are willing to do, then perhaps what we have is not really hope at all. It may simply be a wish.

As you step into your role today, remember that you are not just an educator and leader but a shaper of the future. Your actions and decisions profoundly impact the lives of those you guide. Go, be the great educator and leader that our future needs.

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2026 J Clay Norton

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What Is Your Foundation? For The New School Year?

07 Friday Aug 2026

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Why Convictions Matter More Than Preferences

Well, the new school year has started for most. Some schools have been in session for three weeks, others have more recently. Colleges are about to kick off.  So, thank you for another year of being an outstanding educational leader…

Most mornings when I arrive at Belhaven, Dr. David Hand is already there. As soon as I open the door to the School of Education floor, I can smell the coffee. I put my satchel down in my office, grab my coffee cup, fill it up in the break room, walk into Dr. Hand’s office, and say, “Mornin’, Chief.”

Our coffee cups are filled and another conversation is about to begin.

Over the past few years, Dr. Hand has become one of those people whose wisdom continually challenges and sharpens my thinking about leadership, faith, and the foundations upon which we build our lives. We rarely have an agenda. Sometimes we talk about leadership. Sometimes it is education, theology, culture, or whatever happens to be on our minds. Sometimes we simply wrestle with ideas. We do not always agree, but we always seek to understand where the other is coming from. Anyway, the coffee gets us started, but it is the conversations that stay with me.

Recently, our conversation centered on the difference between convictions and preferences, and it was a good one. I chased that rabbit for the better part of a week. As I reflected on our conversation, it led me to think about two other distinctions: values versus core values and commitment versus surrender.

During our conversation, I was reminded of something my mentor, the great G, Dr. Gerald Hasselman, often said:

“Values are what you believe in. Core values are where you draw the line in the sand.”

I have quoted that statement for years because I have never heard anyone explain the difference more clearly.

Most people have values, I hope so anyway… Most schools have values printed in a handbook or displayed on a website. Core values are different. They are the beliefs that are not negotiable. They define who we are and establish the boundaries we will not cross. They answer the question, “Where do I draw the line?”

The more I thought about it, the more I realized the same distinction exists between commitment and surrender.

A commitment is important. It represents a promise or a course of action. But a commitment still leaves room for choice. Circumstances change. Priorities shift. A commitment can be abandoned.

Surrender is different.

When someone surrenders, the decision has already been made. There is no backup plan because there is no intention of turning back. Surrender becomes part of who we are.

As I reflected on these ideas, it became clear that values and core values, commitment and surrender, preferences and convictions are all asking the same question.

What is your foundation?

Every leader builds on a foundation. Some build on experience. Some build on public opinion. Some build on what appears to produce the best results. Those foundations may work for a season, but they often shift with culture, circumstances, and changing priorities.

The Christian leader has a different foundation.

Paul reminds us in 1 Corinthians 3:11, “For no one can lay a foundation other than that which is laid, which is Jesus Christ.”

That verse answers the question our conversation kept coming back to.

What is your foundation?

If Christ is truly our foundation, then our leadership cannot simply be based on what works. It must first be based on what is true. Our convictions are shaped by God’s Word, not by changing opinions or cultural pressure. Those convictions become our core values, and our core values shape the decisions we make every day.

As another school year begins, educational leaders will make hundreds of decisions. Most of them will never appear in a board meeting or become part of a strategic plan. They will happen in classrooms, hallways, faculty meetings, and private conversations. They will involve students, teachers, parents, and colleagues.

Those moments reveal far more than our leadership ability.

They reveal the foundation upon which we are building.

As you prepare for another school year, ask yourself a few simple questions.

  • What are my values?

  • More importantly, what are my core values?

  • Where have I drawn the line in the sand?

  • What have I merely committed to?

  • To what have I surrendered?

The answers to those questions will shape the kind of leader you become.

Strong leadership is not built on preferences. It is built on convictions. Convictions become our core values, and our core values guide our decisions. When those convictions are grounded in Jesus Christ, we have a foundation that will remain firm long after the excitement of a new school year has faded.

As educational leaders, we spend much of our time helping students build a foundation for their future. We encourage teachers to build strong classrooms, develop meaningful relationships, and create environments where students can flourish. We work with parents to build trust and strengthen our communities.

Before we can build in others, however, we must first examine the foundation upon which we are building ourselves.

When Jesus Christ is our foundation, convictions replace preferences. Core values replace convenience. Surrender replaces simple commitment. Our leadership is no longer shaped by the culture around us but by the Christ within us. That is the kind of leadership our schools need as another year begins.

As you step into your role today, remember that you are not just an educator and leader but a shaper of the future. Your actions and decisions profoundly impact the lives of those you guide. Go, be the great educator and leader that our future needs.

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2026 J Clay Norton

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Recovering the Lost Art of Diplomacy in Educational Leadership…

20 Friday Mar 2026

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Recently I came across a piece from Hillsdale College’s Imprimis titled Recovering the Lost Art of Diplomacy. The article reflects on how diplomacy, once considered an essential leadership skill, has gradually given way to something very different. Instead of patience, listening, and relationship-building, we often see speed, reaction, and public positioning. Reading it made me think about how that same shift is playing out in education. So as you can see, I have been a little creative with the title of this blog, calling it Recovering the Lost Art of Diplomacy in Educational Leadership.

Educational leadership has always required diplomacy.

Schools sit at the intersection of community expectations, political realities, family priorities, and student needs. Too often, it feels like a busy intersection where no one is stopping or yielding. Everyone just keeps barreling through. Navigating those intersections well requires more than technical knowledge or managerial skill. It requires the ability to listen carefully, speak thoughtfully, and bring people together around shared goals, even when they approach issues from very different perspectives.

At its best, diplomacy in educational leadership is quiet work. It happens in conversations before meetings begin. It happens in the effort to understand the concern behind someone’s frustration. It happens when leaders slow down long enough to seek common ground rather than rushing to prove a point.

Increasingly, however, diplomacy seems to be losing ground.

The pace of communication today rewards immediacy over reflection. Social media encourages quick reactions rather than thoughtful dialogue. Public discourse often values strong statements more than careful listening. In that environment, the skills that once defined effective leadership, patience, discretion, and bridge-building, can begin to feel outdated.

But they are not outdated. They are essential.

In fact, the more complex our educational landscape becomes, the more important diplomacy becomes as well. Schools today face challenges that cannot be solved by one voice or one perspective alone. They require collaboration among educators, families, policymakers, and communities. That kind of collaboration does not happen by accident. It requires leaders who are willing to build trust slowly and intentionally.

Diplomacy does not mean avoiding difficult conversations. Quite the opposite. It means engaging those conversations with respect, humility, and a genuine willingness to understand others. It means recognizing that disagreement does not have to lead to division. In many cases, it can lead to stronger solutions.

For educational leaders, recovering the lost art of diplomacy may be one of the most important responsibilities we carry. Our schools are places where young people learn not only academics, but also how communities work together. The way we lead models the way collaboration, disagreement, and progress should look.

Leadership in education will always require courage, clarity, and conviction. But it also requires something quieter and just as powerful. It requires the ability to bring people together around a shared purpose.

Perhaps now more than ever, our schools need leaders who understand that progress is rarely achieved by winning arguments. It is achieved by building trust, finding common ground, and doing the patient work of moving people forward together. In many ways, recovering the lost art of diplomacy may be one of the most important lessons educational leadership can offer our communities today.

As you step into your role today, remember that you are not just an educator and leader but a shaper of the future. Your actions and decisions profoundly impact the lives of those you guide. Go, be the great educator and leader that our future needs.

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2026 J Clay Norton

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Yes, Public Schools Should Be Able To Advocate For Themselves…

17 Friday Jan 2025

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The 2025 Mississippi Legislative is happening, and educational issues are always on the table.

Let’s go back a week or so and look at a school district in Mississippi that distributed a flyer outlining their stance on various legislative matters, sparking a wave of online discussion. While they received some negative comments, there was also online support, proving their voice was heard.

What was on the flyer, you ask? In summary, they were for… Teacher pay raise, revision of the Mississippi Student Funding Formula, and increased emphasis on Career and Technical Education. As a district, they were against… Open enrollment/school choice, educational vouchers for private school tuition, and any decrease in retirement benefits of PERS employees.

As a public school educator, I agree with everything they stated. I’m not writing to debate their points with anyone. However, for what general reason do I agree? While public schools have many advocates, and I’m thankful for every one of them, who better to be an advocate than themselves? Which is what I would like to discuss…

Public schools are not just educational institutions; many are the cornerstones of our communities. They shape the educational experiences of our children, who form the future of our society. While other educational options exist, public schools play a unique and vital role. It’s crucial for them to engage in advocacy to ensure that proposed legislation aligns with the needs and aspirations of the students, educators, and families they serve.

Public schools are uniquely knowledgeable in providing valuable insights into the practical implications of proposed policies by articulating their positions on legislative matters, for they are the ones who know what public school education is and is about. The need for public schools to be part of the proactive engagement of self-advocacy should hopefully help legislators make informed decisions that support effective educational practices and promote student success in our public schools. It would seem that legislators would want to give an ear to those who know education.

School leaders who freely open lines of communication with their thoughts on legislative priorities foster transparency and encourage community involvement. That’s why many communities’ strength lies in the fact that they have a strong public school presence. Self-advocacy not only empowers stakeholders, parents, teachers, and community members to participate actively in the democratic process but also ensures that the community’s collective voice is heard in policy discussions, which should make them an integral part of the process. But, as we all know, you have to be willing to listen. Hearing is one thing; listening is altogether another.

It is also worth noting that many elected state officials have outlined their own legislative priorities for the upcoming session. Is there any difference when our elected officials have their own priorities and agendas? Some are valid and good, while some, I do not believe, represent the best for the overall good of public school education and the teachers. In this context, it is pertinent and reasonable for public schools to advocate for their positions on these and other legislative matters that directly impact their operations and the well-being of the public school institution.

But I need to digress. You might be tired of reading, so I’ll close with this…  

“Courage favors the bold,” and it is not only acceptable but also essential for public schools to advocate for themselves in legislative matters. Such advocacy helps pave the way for what should ensure that educational policies are shaped by those who are most intimately involved in the day-to-day realities of teaching and learning, ultimately leading to a more responsive and effective education system. As I have often stated, when we have non-educators making educational decisions and not listening to those who actually know education, education becomes the victim of __________ (you can fill in the blank).

This action underscores the importance of public schools advocating for themselves within the legislative process. It’s a call to action and to advocate, a reminder of the power and influence public schools have in shaping their future. I’m glad this school district took an educational stand and would hope more districts will also. 

If you are interested in other blog posts relating to educational advocacy, click the links…

Are You, As A Teacher, An Advocate For Our Profession?

If Teachers Are Not An Advocate For Teaching, Then Who Will?

As you step into your role today, remember that you are not just an educator and leader but a shaper of the future. Your actions and decisions profoundly impact the lives of those you guide. Go, be the great educator and leader that our future needs.

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2025 J Clay Norton

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