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Cast Your Own Shadow…

11 Friday Aug 2023

Posted by The Book Chamber in Actions, Authentic, Choice, Deciding, Decisions, Empower, Encouragement, Importance, Influence, Insecurity, Leader, Leadership, Passion, Shadows, Value

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Currently, we are watching the second season of Lincoln Lawyer on Netflix. During episode two, this quote was made “The more you live in someone’s shadow, kid, the longer it takes to cast your own.” I hit the pause button and told Heather, there is my blog for the week.

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The more I chewed on that, the more I realized that quote has gravity in so many areas of leadership. Not only individually but also as groups and corporate entities. The casting your shadow part of the quote made me realize how important it is to provide a reminder of the need to be who we are (not to say that we can do better, for we can, but that is not the point of today’s blog).

First, let me say we can always learn from others. That is valuable. However, true leadership emerges when we step into the light and let what we bring and can do be seen. Staying in the shadow of others is always comfortable, per se. At least you will always have shade… We need light to grow. Others need to see you doing that, and it helps us develop into who we are.

When we see what others are doing and succeeding, our default is to do what they are exactly doing. Take their template, stamp it onto ourselves, and wha la… we are the same. I think not. There are so many variables to consider, yet copy, we do.

With good reason, copying others can only take us so far. Leaders should be willing to cast their shadows and embrace their strengths and passions for who they are and whom they want to become based on a change that makes them better, not because they are “wanting to be what others are.” I’ve been trying to imitate Rory McIlroy’s golf swing and guess what… It ain’t working (bad grammar to prove the point).

Secondly, leadership should never overshadow others. To keep someone “shadowed” is nothing more than true insecurity. True leaders uplift their teams by providing guidance, support, and opportunities. By setting forth a leadership path, we should encourage others to do the same, creating a culture of empowerment and growth.

Casting your own shadow reflects on your strengths, weaknesses, and aspirations. Your unique qualities that drive your decisions are the foundation of your leadership identity. We push ourselves to improve our distinctive skills, not afraid to make mistakes. Casting your own shadow creates an authenticity that is leadership worthy. Leadership is not about imitation; it’s about inspiration. Leadership is not about mimicking others; it’s about harnessing your light to illuminate the way forward for yourself and those around you. Better yet, set a trail on fire.

Remember, “The more you live in someone’s shadow, kid, the longer it takes to cast your own.”

Go be a great educator and leader today… Our future needs it…

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2023 J Clay Norton

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I’ve got change in my pocket? More change than I realize…

28 Friday Jul 2023

Posted by The Book Chamber in Actions, Change, Decisions, Education, Educational Leadership, Effective, Embrace, Encouragement, Leader, Leadership, Relationships, Servant, Teachers, Value

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The summer sun is still high in the sky, pouring down heat that makes thermometers sweat. Some of us have started the new school year with a new change that brings, well… change. Yet, regardless of the start time, many things remain the same.

For students, parents, and educators alike, this period marks a fresh beginning, a chance to set new goals, and an opportunity to make the most of the academic journey ahead, developing future success now.

The start of a new school year is set in motion by what was recently achieved or not the previous year, and that goes for everyone in the school business. What a teacher, administration, or students previously did or did not do carries an effect into the new year, but each has an opportunity to wipe clean the past year, per se, and start anew.

Every new year brings change; embracing the change is up to you. Your effective leaders are going to be the ones who can. Adapting is a key concept while remaining open-minded and having perspective is a mindset that fosters a positive attitude. Something that is much needed in schools today.

Change brings an opportunity to kindle a new curiosity for what will come our way. To see more clearly, to rediscover a passion for how things should be. That is what the new school year brings. All involved in education should have a new thirst for doing and being better than before. Improving our motivation for continued success, creating an even more sense of purpose and responsibility.

Leadership is not just about individual achievements; it’s also about fostering collaboration and teamwork. The more things that can be done for the good of all by serving sends the message that a oneness exists among faculty and staff. This alone helps others embrace change more than anything else.

Change can also bring about an opportunity to exhibit empathy and support. Mistakes might happen, but I have yet to meet an educator who was in education for the right reasons mess up on purpose. If leaders want everyone to feel valued and encouraged, they need to model kindness, show gratitude, and not lead with a “me” mentality.

The new school year has started and at different times for each of us. We have the capability to change more than we realize. If we can always be for others, then change can be the helping tool others might need. That is what education should be about.

Go be a great educator and leader today… Our future needs it…

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2023 J Clay Norton

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The End Is Here…

19 Friday May 2023

Posted by The Book Chamber in Leader, Leadership, Thankful

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Well, here we are, the end of the 2022-2023 school year…

Another one in the books, an added layer of experience, and closer to retirement…

I hope you have enjoyed the blogs this school year. Some have special meaning to me and the others were an opportunity to write about leadership and actually have people read it… well, I am very appreciative. Thank you.

For our traditional last blog of the year, here are the five most-read blogs from this past school year. Just click on the link to read again or read for the first time…

  1. The Value of a Mentor and a Tribute to Dr. Gerald Hasselman…
  2. An Appreciation and a Tribute to a School Counselor… Heather Norton
  3. Are you annoyed at what others say?
  4. Is There a Lost Camaraderie of Teaching?
  5. Blessings Counted

As for my favorite… I’m going with this: An Appreciation and a Tribute to a School Counselor… Heather Norton

Again, I would like to thank the readers of The Book Chamber Blog. Thank you for reading my thoughts, rants, or whatever you might call them. Your comments and feedback are always welcome.

And… As always, A Thank You to teachers everywhere who are in it for the students. You are the reason why education will always have a chance to help society.

If you are wondering what the most read blog is since I have been writing… Here it is… “Ride The Fence” Leadership

As summer vacation nears, make time for yourself and your family. In the end, that is what is most important. And as always… if all else fails and you need something to do, read a book.

Go be a great educator and leader today… Our future needs it…

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2023 J Clay Norton

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An Appreciation and a Tribute to a School Counselor… Heather Norton

12 Friday May 2023

Posted by The Book Chamber in Counseling, Educational Leadership, Leader, Leadership, Tribute

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Well, I’m hanging on to the Teacher Appreciation theme for one more week…

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Today, I would like to write an appreciation and a tribute again, and I am 100% biased in writing this blog. Heather Norton, school counselor at Sumner Hill, is retiring after 28.75 years, the last 21 years at Sumner Hill Jr. High School of the Clinton Public School District.

A little background… Heather finished at Mississippi State University in math education. She started her educational career at Morton Jr. High, teaching math. Then she moved to the Morton High School. Then she went to Pearl High School and finally settled as the school counselor at Sumner Hill. During her school counseling career, Heather has been associated with many professional counseling organizations at the state and national level and served in leadership positions. While she is and will be remembered as a math teacher for some, her legacy will be carved for her passion and the lives impacted by her love of counseling.

Heather’s to-do list of day-to-day counseling would make most people dizzy to read it. It amazes me. There are individual and small groups, peer leadership, helping with in-school clubs, after-school clubs, scheduling, character traits, new student meetings, parent meetings, student plans, encouragement, awards day ceremonies, reality fair, grant writing, testing, counseling, etc., you get the idea. From the school job descriptions to the ones she creates for herself, the students always come first. Her door and ear have always been open, taking an intentional interest in students’ well-being.

Heather’s M.O. for counseling comes from her servant’s heart and the sweet spirit she has. In many ways, her success comes from the students’ success by helping them meet their social and emotional needs. One great, current example is her involvement in All-Pro Dads and getting Tony Dungy to speak to the All-Pro Dads group at Sumner Hill this past spring, made possible by a grant she wrote. She always took every opportunity to go beyond what was asked and put others first.

Also, her advocacy for what a school counselor should be, is unprecedented. Heather is a staunch proponent for school counselors to be counselors. During school hours or afterward, it does not matter.  Just like really good educators, we never stop being one, and neither does Heather as a school counselor. Students could easily tell that she was for them and their success. Imparting knowledge is good, but helping the whole child is what she strives to do. Thinking about it that way, isn’t that what education should be about anyway?

Her ability to work with faculty, staff, parents, and students over the years is one of the many reasons her life will spill over into others. She is one of the best at doing this because of her genuineness. As a counselor, she treats everyone with high expectations and finds value in them, traits that we all need more of, not only as educators but as humans as well. The climate and culture for school counseling she created is model worthy for schools and school counselors everywhere.

In closing, the world would be better if education had more Heather Nortons. My good friend Allen Marett and I jokingly say that he and I are “often imitated but never duplicated,” a phrase by an old wrestling tag team, “The Fabulous Ones.” But that phrase fits Heather Norton and her school counseling career better. She will be missed and most definitely, she will be often imitated but never duplicated.

Even though Heather is leaving the “school” side of counseling, let not your hearts be dismayed, Heather is still going to continue counseling in the private sector.

As stated in the beginning, I’m biased in writing this blog.

Go be a great educator and leader today… Our future needs it…

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2023 J Clay Norton

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