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Who do you want leading… A leader who leads by choice or chance?

23 Friday Aug 2024

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Leadership, call it what you want, but hopefully, you can agree that it is and will continue to be a journey. It demands conscious effort, a vision that is not blinded by self, and a deep understanding of who we are individually…

So, today’s discussion compares and contrasts leading by choice vs. leading by chance. Too many times I see people who are in leadership positions who have earned their way there or thrown into the position. Is there a difference? I believe so, and by the end of reading, hopefully you will discover which is better and why…

Leading by choice…
They are the leaders who embrace responsibilities and challenges with clarity and purpose. Driven by the desire to be a difference-maker for the good of others, inspiring and creating positive change because it is the right thing to do, not because they just think it will be better. They uphold deliberate leadership that is informed and backed for growth for all they lead. They constantly look to refine their leadership, learning from truth without blinders and adapting to challenges. Leading by choice is intentional and fosters trust, collaboration, and a shared vision. They believe in others and understand the impact of aligning actions with values for all to see.

Leading by chance…
They lack the intrinsic motivation required to truly succeed in it for themselves and lack preparedness. They lead from the hip, often finding themselves in leadership positions due to circumstance or out of necessity, without an actual desire to lead. This type of leadership becomes reactive rather than proactive. Purpose and direction lack consistency in decision-making, and opportunities for growth are missed. They struggle to connect on any level and only want loyalty and engagement that benefits a self-sense of purpose. This creates a hollow leadership that causes disengagement and a lack of cohesion.

From a Christian worldview, this aligns with the idea of servant leadership, all day, every day. Such leaders by choice are better equipped to serve others selflessly, making decisions that reflect wisdom and love, embodying the essence of servant leadership that transforms integrity and conviction in and for others.

We see it every day… Those who lead by choice and those who have to lead by chance. One allows you to succeed; the other, well, they give you a chance. You might ask, “Are opportunity and chance the same thing?” I say no. Ultimately, leaders who lead by choice are more effective because they approach leadership with a passion that spills over and over into the lives of others.

Go be a great educator and leader today… Our future needs it…

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2024 J Clay Norton

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A “Teacher Gram” for Sherri Ottis…

26 Friday Apr 2024

Posted by in Appreciation, Classroom Leadership, Compassion, Craft, Education, Educational Leadership, Empathy, Empower, Encouragement, Expectations, Inspiration, Leader, Leadership, Purpose, Relationships, Resilience, Respect, Students, Teacher Appreciation, Teachers, Value, Wisdom

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Hi, my name is Dave… I’m a Sock Baby and belong to one of Sherri Ottis’ former students. I live in a golf bag and I want to give a shout out to…IMG_3116

After devoting all 25 teaching years at Clinton High, Mrs. Ottis is retiring. She has taught almost everything under the “Social Studies” platform, including psychology, sociology, and a bunch of other classes. Her room is the last on the East End side. Either you are going to her class or leaving the building. Anyway…

IMG_6358The two things that set Mrs. Ottis apart are her pursuit of helping teachers feel valued with Teacher Grams, overseeing this project since 2002, and her sociology class, where students model parenting skills with Sock Babies. That’s where I, Dave, came into the world. So, today, I want to give Sherri Ottis a Teacher Gram tribute, whose dedication to teaching transcends the ordinary and resonates for many other teachers to model.

In the long hallways of Clinton High School, Mrs. Ottis’ impact echoes through the years, leaving an enduring mark on students and colleagues. Sherri Ottis is the epitome of excellence, compassion, and unwavering commitment. She personifies the essence of a dedicated educator. With a nurturing demeanor and an infectious passion for learning (she is also a published author of the book Silent Heroes: Downed Airmen and the French Underground), every day, her classroom is transformed into a sanctuary of knowledge, fostering an environment where students feel empowered to explore, inquire, and thrive. Walking into her classroom, one would think they were entering an “Educational Emporium.” Beyond textbooks and lesson plans, Mrs. Ottis cultivates a sense of belonging, instilling values of empathy, resilience, and integrity in her students’ hearts, a lost commodity, it seems, in the education world today.

Mrs. Ottis shines as an educational inspiration. Her unwavering dedication to her craft and genuine care for her students’ well-being exemplify the essence of educational excellence. Through her innovative teaching methods, boundless enthusiasm, and unwavering support, she ignites a spark that has lighted many a flame for her students, propelling them towards success and self-discovery. But don’t play her; it doesn’t take long for anyone to figure out where you stand. Her value of what education should be and the wisdom she offers, stands at the pinnacle of what educational success is lacking today.

Personally, I will miss Sherri’s subtle wit and common thinking ground. I will even miss her “Pope Leo X’s” Bible she used in our Monday morning Bible study group, and her great “one word, one liner” (those who know, know). We have had many talks and solved most of life’s problems, as if the world would listen to us. I am also grateful for the time I have had being an educator with her, as I am sure many of you are as well, and for the impact she has had on students’ lives and on all our lives, for that matter. A legacy she leaves. Education needs more educators like Sherri Ottis because people like Sherri Ottis are extraordinary educators. Sherri is my teaching colleague and, in many ways, a mentor and a confidant. Most importantly, Sherri is my friend, and I will miss seeing her at the end of the hallways of Clinton High.

Go be a great educator and leader today… Our future needs it…

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2024 J Clay Norton

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Truth matters, even when it is attacked…

28 Friday Apr 2023

Posted by in Actions, Honest, Insecurity, Leader, Leadership, Passive-Agressive, Purpose, Time, Truth

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They say, “The truth hurts.” Well, non-truth does also.

For all practical purposes, I believe people care about what is true. Now, you can get caught up in the nuances of the definition of truth, but… Even Pilate asked Jesus, “What is truth?”

What happens when we cannot agree upon what truth is? Do we chalk it up to relativism? People can get stupid when debating “truth.” There lies the problem, people want to debate “truth” to prove a point. I’ve often said, and truly believe, that the truth does not need to be defended. However, it seems that we must do that now. Just listen and watch; it will not take long to see it happening. But to quote Mark Twain, “Never argue with a fool; onlookers may not be able to tell the difference.”

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I joke with my family that if it were not for being disengaged from family and friends, I would be a candidate for being the first to colonize the moon, just to get away from fools and stupid in general. All I need are my books and golf clubs. Used to be that most of the stuff you saw happening, debated, and truth attacked would not even make a difference or would be forgotten five or ten years later. But now, these same happenings, debates, and truth attacks are beginning to have possible long-term effects; some even everlasting.

The definition of truth is now defined as what benefits the person speaking. Any conversation that goes against truth is immediately shut down, ridiculed, or shunned. When those see their “truth” attacked, they become divisive, aggressive, and sometimes passive-aggressive; we can even say violent. Truth becomes irrelevant, people become emotional, and chaos begins to simmer and eventually boil.

Truth will always be attacked. But you know what? Truth is going to win out. As we look forward, truth will continue to stand the test of time. Truth is spoken by honest people who have track records based on, you guessed it, truth. People who speak truth are seen as powerful, which scares many people. Why? Probably due to insecurity. It’s one thing to know the truth and act upon it, yet knowing and not acting on it is where the issues begin.

With light, no amount of darkness can overcome it. The same analogy works with truth; no amount of lies will diminish it. Truth is the constant. There will always be truth attackers and truth bashers. As long as we have people speaking truth, that is enough to give hope for future generations. Have the courage to do so.

Go be a great educator and leader today… Our future needs it…

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2023 J Clay Norton

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Do you help your students “Seize the day?”

03 Friday Mar 2023

Posted by in Achieve, Actions, Classroom Leadership, Classroom Management, Conversations, Education, Educational Leadership, Encouragement, Expectations, Inspiration, Intentional, Intentions, Kindness, Leader, Leadership, Purpose, Relationships, Teachers

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“Carpe diem… Seize the day.” For the younger readers out there, this was a classic movie, Dead Poet’s Society, 1989. For us older, distinguished veterans, we should remember it well.

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There is this one scene that I like where the teacher, Mr. Keating, played by Robin Williams, takes his class out to the commons on the first day of class and has them look at the former students who came before them. While there, Mr. Keating tries to awaken their spirits, per se, into making the most of the time they have. In the clip, these words are spoken by Mr. Keating, “… seize the day boys, make your lives extraordinary.”

Watch the clip here: Carpe diem… Seize the day – Dead Poet’s Society

While watching and listening to the clip, I thought about this… The other day I stopped by the bank on the way home, and the teller asked me how my day at school was. I said, “fine,” and she said, “I don’t know how ya’ll do it.” I figured she was talking about teaching… So I said, “Well, I can either focus on who they are or who they can be.” She just looked at me like I had two heads and changed the subject. I wondered if she wanted to continue the direction of the conversation, but I was not going to speak negatively about education. Sure, we have problems, but so does every other occupation. Anyway…

How does this all tie in? Well, how many times as educators do we “seize the day” to make the lives of our students extraordinary? It’s easy to focus on what walks through the classroom door, but do we ever consider what they can be when they walk out the door? Do we focus so much on the negative aspects of students that we forget that they might not become who they can be without our help? This goes for all aspects of education… Teachers and students, administrators and teachers, School leaders, etc.

While I believe Mr. Keating wanted his students to understand that, ultimately, it is up to the individual to “seize the day.” Knowing or unknowingly, at the same time, he was helping them understand that. That’s where we make the most of who our students can be. Giving them belief, giving them hope for their future, and modeling an example that says, be different for the right reason.

Oh, to help a student to feel extraordinary, to help them “seize the day.” Most might not do that on their own. Let’s help them “seize the day” by us doing the same. Our lives might just feel extraordinary if we do.

Let’s go fight the good fight of leadership. Someone has to…

Go be a great educator and leader today… Our future needs it…

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2023 J Clay Norton

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