Why I Write A Leadership Blog…

The other day, someone asked me why I wrote a leadership blog. I had a few hundred answers, but I knew they were sincere, so I gave them a sincere answer. It was not a short answer, but one that covered the bases of what they could relate to…

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Effective leadership is crucial for success. Contrary to the popular belief that anyone can lead, leaders play a significant role in guiding and fostering a culture that empowers others. For me, this is the determining factor of the great divide between leaders and non-leaders; can they guide and foster? There are weak leaders and leadership out there, and that’s why I write a leadership blog. Hopefully, someone will read the blog and change or help them recognize the difference.

Writing a blog gives a platform to provide unique and hopefully valuable thoughts to share experiences and inspire. While most of my blog writing is geared to general leadership, many know I am passionate about educational leadership as well. Every once in a while, I’ll chase rabbits, hoping I catch one or just rant. But, deep down, I write because I care. I care about what can be better. Ideologies are fast changing with new generations, and the need for leadership truth is as valuable as it has ever been.

Essentially, I would hope that motivation and inspiration are provided for aspiring and established leaders. The adage, “the more you read, the more you know,” is still true. For me, finding that new novelty of leadership or even looking at leadership from a different perspective sparks a flame.

In the end, writing a blog is beneficial for me. It’s something I enjoy doing. It provides mental therapy and the potential to transform leadership to a level of collective empowerment, not self-serving. Perception is not reality when it comes to leadership. Leadership is reality, and it is either good or bad. It’s not how we approach or define leadership that matters. It is how it is lived for others to see and hear. That makes the difference.

So, that was my sincere answer.

Go be a great educator and leader today… Our future needs it…

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2023 J Clay Norton

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Pressure Is Opportunity

While watching ESPN College Game Day at the Cotton Bowl for the “Red River Rivalry” between Oklahoma and Texas this past Saturday morning, Brent Venables, Oklahoma’s head coach, was interviewed. During the interview, one statement he made stood out. When asked how he and his players felt about being the underdog and not picked to win, he stated, “Pressure is opportunity.” I looked at Breana and said, “There’s my blog for next week.”

We often hear phrases such as…
They can’t handle the pressure…
They were under a lot of pressure…
Subjected to pressure…
Peer pressure…
Under pressure…

All of these have a negative connotation. Pressure is often associated with stress and discomfort. When was the last time we heard about pressure being on the positive side?

Leadership will always have pressure situations, making it a natural component. How we view those pressure situations will determine our leadership mindset. Deadlines, critical decisions, crises, etc… these situational moments allow for resilience, adaptability, and maybe even ingenuity to be seen.

Leadership has only two options when confronted with pressure. Seize the moment and showcase capability, or don’t. However, it’s always an opportunity. It takes little time for true leadership to emerge.

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Think about it this way: pressure is movement. It either pushes or pulls.
In essence, it’s force. An often heard quote, “A diamond is a hunk of coal that made good under pressure.” Even though this is untrue, the metaphor is good. As a leader, we all have what our perceived limits are. Will we make good under pressure?

As a result, pressure always forces change. We are where we are, adapting to the given environment and continuing to succeed or deteriorating under pressure. Suppose leaders adopt the mentality that pressure encourages personal growth and achievement; then, experiences create memory moments that help forge future opportunities, teaching invaluable lessons and ultimately shaping their character and competence.

You want to be a quality leader? Reframe how you look at pressure. Unlock the potential that pressure offers. Empower yourself and embrace the opportunity.

Go be a great educator and leader today… Our future needs it…

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2023 J Clay Norton

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Leadership About Nothing…

For many of us, we are showing our age now. From 1989 – 1998, Seinfeld was on the air. The plot… Nothing. Unless you heard Jerry and George say it when they were trying to pitch their show in one of the episodes, I wonder if it really ever registered. Now, we watch the reruns on Netflix, fast-forwarding thirty-plus years; I pick up on different aspects of the episodes and the nuisances.

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Thinking on this the other day, I realized I couldn’t wrap my mind around a topic that wasn’t a needed discussion for this week’s blog. So I thought, “How do I write about nothing?” That’s when I realized that maybe I do have something…

Think about it this way: society constantly urges us to be on the move, achieve more, and accumulate stuff. These unofficial mandates bring to mind the profound lessons that “nothing” can teach and help us with our leadership. Now, you might be thinking, where is this going, and isn’t “nothing” about leadership paradoxical?

Well, a few thoughts… the more I think about it, the more I realize that “nothing” provides valuable insights into the effectiveness of our leadership and its self-awareness…

When “nothing” happens, a state of stillness happens, and the mind is clear of preconceived notions. This allows for the open space of creativity, critical thinking, and, most importantly, active listening (something that I will continue to work on personally).

Many leaders who have the characteristics of “look at me,” “see me,” and “hear me” cannot set aside their ego. They constantly want to assert themselves, creating an environment where others are fearful to speak and contribute. These are the leaders who definitely think they are and have “something.”

Leadership is also about letting go of unnecessary burdens, distractions, and clutter… essentially embracing “nothingness” to focus on what truly matters. Quality leadership prioritizes goals and actions aligned with the overall well-being of others. They simplify the complexities and remove barriers to progress. They discern what is essential from what is not needed, leading successfully with clarity and purpose.

“Nothing” also symbolizes humility and the willingness to admit when one doesn’t know or understand something. We need more leaders who can accept this. Great leadership is not afraid to acknowledge gaps in their knowledge or experience, seeking guidance and learning from others. When this happens, humility fosters a culture of continuous growth and improvement, benefiting everyone.

My great mentor, Dr. Hassleman, used to say, “Leadership is not hard; just do the right thing by people.” In some way, I see the value of “nothingness” in this. By taking myself out and putting others in, we open ourselves up to endless possibilities. It’s a fascinating concept when we think of leadership this way. Our decision-making will be better, and connections will become more genuine. That’s what leadership needs… genuineness. It’s amazing what you can get out of nothing.

Go be a great educator and leader today… Our future needs it…

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2023 J Clay Norton

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Leadership & Loyalty: The Power of Who’s in Your Circle

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I saw this the other day on Facebook. I’m a huge fan of the movie Tombstone, especially with Kurt Russell and Val Kilmer respectfully playing Wyatt Earp and Doc Holiday.

As I looked and thought about that picture, I realized the amount of unsaid leadership in it and how it holds profound significance. True leadership isn’t about amassing a large following but cultivating a loyal and dedicated team. Large followings take up more than space.

How often have you seen leaders who amass a following because it makes them feel “large and in charge?” They believe “strength in numbers” belongs to how they manage their many minions. Their “circle” is as big as the equator and is more of a hole than being whole.

A few thoughts regarding a tight circle of loyalty…

  1. Quality over quantity – It’s about depth and substance. The smaller the circle, the stronger it is. Too many times we find others who do nothing more than take up oxygen.
  2. Loyalty breeds commitment – Being around like-minded people with kindred spirits is contagious. I love it when I see others want others to succeed in their group; why would you not? On the flip side, we see some who can’t shine the spotlight on others because they have an iron fist holding the spotlight on themselves.
  3. Mutual trust and respect – Large circle wannabe leaders demand both from others without giving it themselves. Trust and respect go both ways and foster an environment of unity. Tight circle loyalty understands the strengths and weaknesses and embraces them for success.
  4. Resilience – When adversity hits, that circle’s bond gets tight. Loyalty will never turn its back. Oh, but how many leaders do just that?
  5. Inspiring – How often do we see leaders who mandate orders and micromanage others to loyalty of fear? Inspirational leaders are models and radiate.
  6. Longevity – Stands the test of time and does not sway with the trends. Enduring success comes from loyalty within the circle, not outside it.

I showed the above picture to a friend the other day and said, “You know, my circle is getting smaller and smaller the older I get.” My friend stated, “Yes, it does.” However, I never want it to become a dot where it’s only me. But amazingly, I see many leaders who become a dot because no one wants to be in their circle.

Leadership is not a numbers game, but so many want it that way. With an entourage, they are carried on the shoulders of those who bow and cower. The thought, “It’s not about the size of the circle; it’s the loyalty in it,” captures the essence of effective leadership, ultimately achieving remarkable outcomes and leaving a lasting legacy.

Go be a great educator and leader today… Our future needs it…

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2023 J Clay Norton

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