Intentional Leadership

 

  • “Excellence is never an accident. It is always the result of high intention, sincere effort, and intelligent execution; it represents the wise choice of many alternatives – choice, not chance, determines your destiny.” —Aristotle

    One of the great concepts of leadership is that it never goes out of style.  Even for a post that was written in 2014.  While looking for the idea of “intentional leadership” and what it means I ran across the following by Ken Blanchard, https://whyleadnow.com/2014/01/10/intentional-leadership-3-timeless-narratives-for-2014/ 

    There are some really good ideas here in this post and as leaders, we would be wise to be “intentional” about knowing what they are.  We all have high intentions and for the most part we put sincere effort into our intentions because we are looking for a desired outcome.  However, sometimes we just do not make the intelligent execution to make it happen.  After reading this post about intentional leadership, all three must be met.  We really cannot have one without the others.

    Intentional Leadership—3 Timeless Narratives
    January is littered by a multitude of good intentions! That new number at the end of the Roman calendar, blindly promising to bring us prosperity and success, does often become a distant memory by the time the groundhog raises his weary head from a winter slumber. But the start of something new—a year, a friendship, a work project—can be a great opportunity to lead yourself and others to great success through three simple narratives.

    High Intentions

    The giddy hope and high expectations of a new year often outpace our ability to align old habits with those new intensions. However, high intention is the heart beat of any personal or social revolution. It is woven into the tapestry of humanity, to naturally hope for higher levels of happiness and purpose in our lives. High intensions do not mean that a person who has them need be dissatisfied with the life they are living, but rather are open to challenges and disappointment as they seek meaning and purpose at work, at home, or at play.

    Sincere Effort

    However, the highest intentions are but a thought in the wind without sincere effort to make those intentions a reality. An athlete or an artist does not become excellent without sincere effort. Effort is easy, sincere effort is meeting of the cruelest of tasks with the same zeal for the things we love to do. Sincere effort requires us to do more than put one foot in front of the other; it requires us to take each step, each daily task, as an opportunity to align it with our highest intensions.

    Intelligent Execution

    Our highest intentions and sincerest efforts must be driven by more than just arbitrary motion or aimless daily activity. It’s one thing to have a workout scheduled on your calendar, but it’s another task to lace up the shoes and complete that workout. If you have made resolutions, or have a set of goals for yourself this year, they will ultimately be measured by the intelligence of their execution, not the height of your intensions or the sincerity of your efforts. Forming an intelligent execution strategy promotes real goal achievement. With intelligent execution, you are moving from intensions and knowing, in to action through doing.

    Excellence at work or in life is more than a thought or an idea, it is a purpose driven effort. Make your choices wiser and more productive this year through high intentions, sincere effort, and intelligent execution of those efforts. Live the life you intend to live!-

Boy, All I Need Is One Thing To Make Me Happy

  • Successful people are always looking for opportunities to help others. Unsuccessful people are always asking, “What’s in it for me?” –Brian Tracy

    I found this the other day while going through my “motivational folder.”  If I remember correctly my Dad gave it to me when I was a teenager.  It’s amazing the “stuff” you hang on to…Alot of truisms here.

    Remember what we are striving for… THINK LEADERSHIP

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    Boy, All I Need Is One Thing To Make Me Happy

    I wish it were winter time, I’m so tired of this heat.

    If it would just snow again.

    Is this snow ever going to melt?

    If I had a 10-speed bike, I’d be happy. That’s all I want. A 10-speed bike.

    Boy, will I be happy when I get a car. No more begging for rides.

    I’d be happy if I could stay out later at night. One hour later, is that too much to ask?

    I will never be happy until I’m going steady.

    Once I’m out of high school, I’ll be happy.

    I need a job. If I could just find a job, I’d never complain again. I want to go to college.

    I’ve got to get out of these dorms. The rules are getting me down. Once I get an apartment, I’ll be happy as a lark.

    I need a place of my own. I want to get married, settle down. I’m tired of roaming and living alone.

    I’ll be happy once I’m married. If only we had more money.

    Children will make me happy. As soon as I have a baby, I’ll be satisfied.

    If you could only talk, I wish you were still a baby.

    If you buy me a second car, I promise, nothing else, ever.

    A dishwasher. How can I keep up with all these dishes? I need a dishwasher.

    Boy, I’ll be happy when the kids go to school. I wish the kids would come home.

    I’ve got it! A camper will make us happy. We could sneak off, enjoy one another. Motorcycles, that’s it.  Maybe a boat.

    Once we get out of debt, we’ll be happy.

    I need to get more involved in the community. If I just had a church responsibility.

    I wish I had more time to spend with the family. I’d be happier. They’d be happier.

    I want a divorce. Then I’ll be happy. I’d never ask for another thing if I could just be free again.

    If I could just find a steady companion, someone to talk to. That’s all I need. A second chance at marriage. I’d make it this time.  A second chance. Is that asking too much?

    I’d be happy if the children were more independent. Our kids never come to see us. Always off Heaven knows where. After all we have given them, they out to at least visit on holidays.

    Listen, if we had a few grandchildren, we would never ask for anything else.

    Why can’t they understand, we don’t want to raise our grandchildren.

    When was the last time the grandkids came to visit?

    We won’t be satisfied until we set aside money for retirement. I would rest easier knowing our cemetery plots are selected and paid for. Once we retire and slow down, we’ll be happy.

    There is nothing to do, I need a hobby.

    I wish I felt better. I’m always taking medicine. If I felt better, I’d never complain again. I’d be happy if we could catch up on the doctor bills.

    We better sell this big house. We’ll move into an apartment. Things will be easier in a small place.

    Don’t you miss the old house?

    I wish the children would stop by and visit more often. I’m so lonely. A few more visitors would make me happy.

    Can’t people understand? I need my rest. I’ll be happy once I get into a good rest home.

    I wish I weren’t so sleepy all the time. I’d be happy if I were young again.

    I wish I had someone to talk to. I’d be perfectly happy if I had a friend.

    I want to sleep. Rest would make me happy. If this would all just end, then….then, I’d be happy.

     

    As a rule, Man’s a fool.

    When it’s hot, he wants it cool.

    When it’s cool, he wants it hot.

    Always wanting what it’s not.

    Never wanting what he’s got.

Do You Have a Name?

  • “Leaders always choose the harder right rather than the easier wrong.” – Orrin Woodarda NY Times bestselling author of LeaderShift, Launching a Leadership Revolution, and numerous other books on leadership and liberty.

    Do You Have a Name? 

    In the movie Gladiator, there is a scene where the Emperor wants to know who the Gladiator is. While he is somewhat reluctant, he finally tells who he is. Not only does he tells the Emperor who he is, he tells him his legacy, who he belongs to, and what is his going to do.

    I believe we must have this type of attitude to be successful. We must know who we are, the legacy that we carry, who we belong to, and most of all what we are going to do. Obviously, while life is not always this simple, it is something we can put effort into.

    Here is the link for the movie clip:

     

    Here is the transcript:

    Commodus: Rise. Rise.
    Commodus: Your fame is well deserved, Spaniard. I don’t think there’s ever been a gladiator to match you. As for this young man, he insists you are Hector reborn. Or was it Hercules? Why doesn’t the hero reveal himself and tell us all your real name? You do have a name?
    Maximus: My name is Gladiator.
    Commodus: How dare you show your back to me! Slave, you will remove your helmet and tell me your name.
    Maximus: My name is Maximus Decimus Meridius. Commander of the Armies
    of the North, General of the Felix Legions, loyal servant to the true emperor, Marcus Aurelius. Father to a murdered son, husband to a murdered wife. And I will have my vengeance, in this life or the next.

    © 2017 J Clay Norton

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What is your “ship”?

“Ships are made to go to desired places.  So if your friendSHIP, relationSHIP or partnerSHIP is not with positive people, you might need to Abandon SHIP” – Anonymous 

What a great quote.

Often, justly or not, we are labeled by whom we are around. Self-defeating people only want you in their group because it makes them look better; it’s always about them! Why do we even go there? Is our sense of wanting to belong so strong that we put ourselves in weaker, lesser environments? At what point do we “abandon ship” and find a “ship” that is worth sailing? There are a lot of “ships” out there… Let’s make sure we find the one that enables us to reach our desired place safely while at the same time allowing us to experience the ride positively.

Remember… THINK LEADERSHIP

© 2017 J Clay Norton

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