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Some Leaders Need the Drama

04 Friday Sep 2026

Posted by The Book Chamber in Actions, Context, Conversations, Culture, Drama, Education, Educational Leadership, Effective, Insecurity, Leader, Leadership

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I had a friend the other day who asked me a “hypothetical” leadership question. Well, I told them there really are no hypothetical questions when they are posed like that, so I asked them to just tell me the situation. They laughed, said, “You’re right,” and went on to explain what was happening. Somewhere in the middle of that conversation, I had my idea for the blog this week.

The details of the situation are not important, and honestly, the situation itself was not all that unusual and was trivial at best. Anyone who has spent much time in education has seen some version of it. There was conflict, there were different personalities involved, there were conversations taking place about other conversations, and there was enough back-and-forth to keep the situation alive much longer than it probably needed to be. Listening to the story, I thought that if I were the one having to deal with all of this, I would just as soon bang my head against the wall and give myself a headache on purpose.

What caught my attention, though, was not really the situation itself, but the drama it created. It was almost like watching a snowball roll downhill. Something that probably should have been relatively small just kept getting bigger as more people, more conversations, and more emotion became attached to it. By the time my friend finished telling me the story, my thoughts had moved beyond the original situation altogether and landed on something much more interesting: the role leadership can sometimes play in keeping drama going.

Man pours liquid onto an office fire while holding a fire extinguisher

That led me to a question that may push the envelope a little: Do some leaders actually like drama?

I think some do, and I also think that, many times, it comes from insecurity.

There is something about drama that can make an insecure leader feel important. When everyone is coming to you with the latest information, you feel like you are in the know. When people bring their disagreements to you instead of working them out themselves, you feel needed. When you know who said what, who is upset with whom, and who is supposedly on which side, it can create a false sense of influence. Before long, the leader can begin to confuse being involved in everything with actually leading something, and that is where it becomes dangerous.

Secure leaders do not have to know everything that is being said in the building, nor do they need to be included in every disagreement. They do not need people choosing sides to determine who supports them, and they certainly do not need to keep a conflict alive simply because it gives them a place in the middle of it. In fact, good leadership should move an organization in the opposite direction. We should be developing people who can talk to one another, work through disagreements, address concerns directly, and move forward without every issue eventually finding its way into the leader’s office.

None of that means a leader should avoid conflict. There are times when leadership requires us to step directly into difficult situations, make hard decisions, and have conversations that nobody particularly wants to have. However, there is a tremendous difference between addressing conflict and feeding it, and I would argue that one of the better tests of our own security as leaders is what happens when everything is going well. Can we allow people to work, succeed, solve problems, and even receive recognition without needing to insert ourselves into the middle of it?

If we are always surrounded by drama, eventually we may need to stop asking why everyone else creates so much of it and consider a much more uncomfortable possibility.

Maybe we like it there.

Want to read a good leadership book on this? Here it is: Upgrade Your Leadership: 8 Foundational Tools to Overcome Drama, Build Trust, and Thrive Under Pressure

As you step into your role today, remember that you are not just an educator and leader but a shaper of the future. Your actions and decisions profoundly impact the lives of those you guide. Go, be the great educator and leader that our future needs.

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2026 J Clay Norton

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What’s in a year? Moments to carry forward…

15 Friday May 2026

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Well, here we are, the end of the 2025-2026 school year…

You pause mid-step, caught between where you are going and where you have been. Your body faces forward, but your head turns back over your shoulder, eyes fixed on something no one else can see.

It is not a single memory. It feels like a collage. Faded laughter, a door closing, sunlight through a window that no longer exists. The past does not sit neatly behind you. It lingers, almost within reach, as if turning a little more could bring it back.

Your expression is difficult to read. Not quite regret, not quite longing, something quieter. Recognition, perhaps. An understanding that those moments shaped you, but no longer belong to them.

The air feels still, as if time itself is holding its breath.

Then, slowly, you turn forward again.

Another year down, a year wiser, a year older, and another ______ to remember (you fill in the blank)…

Young woman in green sweater with floating old photos fading away from her back on a park street

Ecclesiastes 3:1 – “For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven.” The end of the school year marks the packaging of academic efforts, the closure of one phase of learning, and the beginning of another. It’s a time to reflect on the experiences gained, the knowledge acquired, and the growth achieved. It is the time we have been given…

I hope you have enjoyed the blogs this school year. Some have special meaning to me, and the others were an opportunity to write about leadership and actually have people read it… well, I am very appreciative. Thank you.

For our traditional last blog of the year, here are the five most-read blogs from this past school year. Just click on the link to read again or read for the first time…

  1. Beyond Today: The Transitive Power of Educational Leadership
  2. “Asset-based narrative” – It’s what we need in educational leadership for our schools…
  3. A Sacred Work Prayer
  4. Perspective for a New Year: Reflections from The Family Circus
  5. Narcissism: From Decay to Destruction in Leadership.. Born of Selfish Pride

As for my favorite… I’m going with this: The Tension of Conflict and the Conflict of Tension…

Again, I would like to thank the readers of The Book Chamber Blog. Thank you for reading my thoughts, rants, or whatever you might call them. Your comments and feedback are always welcome.

And… As always, A Thank You to educators in every role, everywhere who are in it for the students. You are the reason why education will always have a chance to help society.

If you are wondering what the most read blog is since I have been writing… Here it is… Is the “Leadership Force” strong with you? There must be Star Wars fans out there…

As summer vacation nears, make time for yourself and your family. In the end, that is what is most important. And as always… if all else fails and you need something to do, read a book.

We will pick back up in the fall.

As you step into your role today, remember that you are not just an educator and leader but a shaper of the future. Your actions and decisions profoundly impact the lives of those you guide. Go, be the great educator and leader that our future needs.

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2026 J Clay Norton

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Recovering the Lost Art of Diplomacy in Educational Leadership…

20 Friday Mar 2026

Posted by The Book Chamber in Classroom Leadership, Conversations, Diplomacy, Education, Educational Leadership, Expectations, Experience, Leader, Leadership, Perception, Perspective, Reflection, Respect, Responsibility, Trust

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Recently I came across a piece from Hillsdale College’s Imprimis titled Recovering the Lost Art of Diplomacy. The article reflects on how diplomacy, once considered an essential leadership skill, has gradually given way to something very different. Instead of patience, listening, and relationship-building, we often see speed, reaction, and public positioning. Reading it made me think about how that same shift is playing out in education. So as you can see, I have been a little creative with the title of this blog, calling it Recovering the Lost Art of Diplomacy in Educational Leadership.

Educational leadership has always required diplomacy.

Schools sit at the intersection of community expectations, political realities, family priorities, and student needs. Too often, it feels like a busy intersection where no one is stopping or yielding. Everyone just keeps barreling through. Navigating those intersections well requires more than technical knowledge or managerial skill. It requires the ability to listen carefully, speak thoughtfully, and bring people together around shared goals, even when they approach issues from very different perspectives.

At its best, diplomacy in educational leadership is quiet work. It happens in conversations before meetings begin. It happens in the effort to understand the concern behind someone’s frustration. It happens when leaders slow down long enough to seek common ground rather than rushing to prove a point.

Increasingly, however, diplomacy seems to be losing ground.

The pace of communication today rewards immediacy over reflection. Social media encourages quick reactions rather than thoughtful dialogue. Public discourse often values strong statements more than careful listening. In that environment, the skills that once defined effective leadership, patience, discretion, and bridge-building, can begin to feel outdated.

But they are not outdated. They are essential.

In fact, the more complex our educational landscape becomes, the more important diplomacy becomes as well. Schools today face challenges that cannot be solved by one voice or one perspective alone. They require collaboration among educators, families, policymakers, and communities. That kind of collaboration does not happen by accident. It requires leaders who are willing to build trust slowly and intentionally.

Diplomacy does not mean avoiding difficult conversations. Quite the opposite. It means engaging those conversations with respect, humility, and a genuine willingness to understand others. It means recognizing that disagreement does not have to lead to division. In many cases, it can lead to stronger solutions.

For educational leaders, recovering the lost art of diplomacy may be one of the most important responsibilities we carry. Our schools are places where young people learn not only academics, but also how communities work together. The way we lead models the way collaboration, disagreement, and progress should look.

Leadership in education will always require courage, clarity, and conviction. But it also requires something quieter and just as powerful. It requires the ability to bring people together around a shared purpose.

Perhaps now more than ever, our schools need leaders who understand that progress is rarely achieved by winning arguments. It is achieved by building trust, finding common ground, and doing the patient work of moving people forward together. In many ways, recovering the lost art of diplomacy may be one of the most important lessons educational leadership can offer our communities today.

As you step into your role today, remember that you are not just an educator and leader but a shaper of the future. Your actions and decisions profoundly impact the lives of those you guide. Go, be the great educator and leader that our future needs.

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2026 J Clay Norton

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Forty-Six Years Later: Leadership, Legacy, and Something Always Worth Rooting For…

27 Friday Feb 2026

Posted by The Book Chamber in Commitment, Consistency, Culture, Educational Leadership, Expectations, Growth, Leader, Leadership, Mission, Patience, Resilience, Transformational, Trust, Vision

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With the Winter Olympics this year, I believe I watched more than ever before. I am not entirely sure why, but I got caught up not only in the scoring, but in the timing of events, the degree of difficulty, and the razor-thin margins separating victory from defeat. And the fact that so much of the scoring is subjective made it even more compelling. There were a few times I found myself thinking, “Are you serious?” with some of the scoring. The precision, preparation, pressure, and judgment behind those moments are hard to ignore.

And then there was hockey, a reminder that some victories take generations.

When the U.S. hockey team captured Olympic gold again after 46 years, the victory felt bigger than a game. It was more than a medal ceremony or a moment on the podium. It was a testament to perseverance, culture, and belief sustained across generations. For educational leaders, it offers a powerful reminder of what long-term success truly requires.

Forty-six years is longer than most professional careers. I vaguely remember the 1980 moment; I was seven at the time. Moments like that, however, do not fade. They live on because they represent more than a final score. They represent belief. It spans leadership transitions, philosophical shifts, evolving training methods, and changing expectations. Yet through all of that change, the pursuit of excellence endured. Schools operate in much the same way. Superintendents come and go. Principals move between buildings. Initiatives are introduced, refined, and sometimes replaced. Standards shift. Community needs evolve. Still, the core mission remains unchanged… ensuring every student has the opportunity to grow, achieve, and thrive.

The gold medal reminds us that meaningful outcomes are rarely immediate. In education, we often feel pressure for quick wins, improved test scores within a year, measurable gains by the next evaluation cycle, visible culture shifts by semester’s end. But sustainable excellence is never built on urgency alone. It is built on systems, consistency, and shared commitment. The hockey program did not win because of one inspirational speech or a single standout athlete, although that one motivational speech by Herb Brooks in 1980 certainly deserves honorable mention. If you need a reminder, the locker room speech portrayed in the movie Miracle still gives chills. It won because of decades of investment in development, coaching, infrastructure, and identity.

Educational leadership demands that same long-term vision. Are we building structures that will outlast us? Are we developing teacher leaders who will carry the vision forward? Are we strengthening instructional practices in ways that compound over time? True leadership is less about immediate recognition and more about lasting impact.

There is also a lesson in resilience. Forty-six years without gold undoubtedly included near misses, disappointments, and public scrutiny. Yet the program did not abandon its pursuit. It adjusted, recalibrated, and recommitted. Schools face similar challenges, budget constraints, enrollment fluctuations, achievement gaps, and shifting political landscapes. Effective leaders do not chase every new trend in response to adversity. Instead, they stay anchored to purpose while remaining agile in strategy.

Perhaps most importantly, the victory underscores the power of culture. Championship teams are not simply collections of talent. They are unified by trust, shared standards, and collective accountability. The same is true in schools. Talent matters, but culture multiplies talent. When educators believe in one another, align around a common vision, and hold themselves to high expectations, transformation becomes possible.

The U.S. hockey team’s gold medal after 46 years is a reminder that leadership is generational work. We may not always see the final outcome of the seeds we plant. But if we focus on building strong systems, nurturing talent, sustaining belief, and protecting culture, the breakthrough moment, when it comes, will feel both extraordinary and earned. And when it does, it becomes more than a victory. It becomes a legacy our communities can believe in, something always worth rooting for. Because even if gold is not won, it does not mean that winning is not taking place. In education, growth, resilience, and the commitment to stay in the game are victories in themselves. And in the meantime, we trust the process.

As you step into your role today, remember that you are not just an educator and leader but a shaper of the future. Your actions and decisions profoundly impact the lives of those you guide. Go, be the great educator and leader that our future needs.

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2026 J Clay Norton

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