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Stop Leading to Survive – Start Leading with Purpose

25 Friday Apr 2025

Posted by The Book Chamber in Actions, Anchored, Character, Circumstances, Clarity, Classroom Leadership, Compassion, Conviction, Education, Educational Leadership, Emotion, Emotional Temperature, Empathy, Empower, Know Your Why, Leader, Leadership, Mixed Signals, Purpose, Teachers, Transformational, Trust

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Have you noticed lately how society wants to make leadership complex and move at a speed that is too fast? All you have to do is just look around. Also, you may notice that many leaders are not leading from a deep sense of purpose; they’re leading from a place of longing. Longing for meaning, for validation, and for results, often defaulting to a “whatever works” philosophy. However, when they start chasing effectiveness without direction, they sacrifice the very essence of leadership – clarity, conviction, and character.

Leadership is meant to be anchored in purpose – with a strong, stable, and consistent foundation. Without it, even the most charismatic or skilled leaders drift, and depending on the strength and speed of the current, they can be taken anywhere. When purpose is missing, decisions become reactive rather than proactive, and strategies become short-sighted rather than transformative. A leader may gain temporary success, but the tell-tale signs of losing something far more valuable will be seen, which are trust, direction, and emotional resilience.

The tragedy is that the longing for meaning, validation, and results, when left unmet, often leads to purposeless leadership. It becomes a cycle; the more leaders seek to find purpose in external wins, the more disconnected they become from internal values. Without emotional alignment, leadership becomes mechanical and goes through the motions. The spark is gone, passion is replaced by pressure, and vision gives way to vagueness.

True leadership flows from inner conviction, not circumstantial or situational convenience. It requires doing the hard work of defining your “why” before driving the “what.” Purpose brings focus and fuels positive emotions of hope, empathy, and courage, all of which are essential for inspiration and creating a lasting impact.

Time-trusted leadership does not settle for what merely works – that’s survival. Instead, it pursues what matters – that’s significance. The world doesn’t need more successful leaders. It needs and requires more purposeful ones! Those who lead with clarity, conviction, and character.

It doesn’t matter where or at what level your leadership takes place, when leaders are clear about their purpose, they can offer others a reason to follow. At the heart of all great leadership is not just action but meaning, purposeful meaning.

As you step into your role today, remember that you are not just an educator and leader but a shaper of the future. Your actions and decisions profoundly impact the lives of those you guide. Go, be the great educator and leader that our future needs.

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2025 J Clay Norton

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It’s a Wonderful Life – Leadership Found in Good ole George Bailey…

06 Friday Dec 2024

Posted by The Book Chamber in A Christmas Story, Actions, Charlie Brown, Christmas, Christmas Vacation, Circumstances, Clarity, Compassion, Crisis, Deciding, Decisions, Heart, Inspiration, It's a Wonderful Life, Know Your Why, Leader, Leadership, Legacy, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sacrifice, Servant, Transactional, Transformational

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Well, it’s that time of year again… when we watch the same movies we have seen dozens of times over and over. I have my favorites (Charlie Brown, Christmas Vacation, and The Christmas Story) some that are so-so ok, and then there are those that are no way.

For me, It’s a Wonderful Life falls into a different category. I really like it, but do not watch it often (really cannot tell you why or why not). I do realize that many think it is a holiday classic, and that’s ok; I’m not opposed to turning the channel if it is on. However, I do realize and appreciate that there is a profound amount of leadership, sacrifice, and what can truly define success in the movie.

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Good ole George Bailey… he’s the one many will say, “Go live your life, forget the people.” While others recognize the fact that he spends his life setting aside his dreams of travel, adventure, and ambition to serve the small town of Bedford Falls.

You can be worn out watching George by the movie’s end; even George feels worn out. He sees himself as a failure, convinced he’s achieved nothing he desired, talking to anyone who will listen while at the same time talking to himself. Yet, for the pure of heart, at the end of the movie, we are given a glimpse of the truth… George has everything that truly matters.

This glimpse holds valuable lessons for all, especially those in leadership…

Impact Over Accomplishment

George is a big-time dreamer, wanting to build skyscrapers and see the world. All of this is over shadowed by the transformative impact he has on the lives of others. The older I get, the more I realize that leadership is not measured by trophies, plaques, certificates, or accolades but by how others thrive because of your influence in their lives. Every sacrifice George makes keeps Bedford Falls alive. He ensures families they have homes and hope. I realize here that the true leadership shown by George builds communities, not personal legacies.

The Power of Relationships

There is a scene in the movie where George is at his lowest point. However, he learns his worth is from the outpouring of love and support from those he served; yes, we see servant leadership at its finest. We see in George’s character that leadership is relational, not transactional. Through George’s trust, loyalty, and goodwill, he cultivated his greatest wealth. This is what is needed in times of crisis, the value of relationships.

Redefining Success

Success of achievements vs meaning… This is a hard one, and you are the only one who can answer. We can read books, listen to podcasts, and ask for advice, but in the end… only you can answer what you want out of the decisions you make. If you have seen the movie, you know how it ends. George Bailey did not build skyscrapers, but he built up the lives of others. His success was not in what he gained (he only had $2 left in the cash register) but in what he gave, which was himself. If you understand this, you know that fulfillment can be found when you prioritize purpose over prestige.

Good ole George Bailey… he wanted to chase personal dreams, but not at the expense of others. His greatest triumph could be ours… realizing that a life poured out for others is a wonderful life. This Christmas season, let’s give it a try.

As you step into your role today, remember that you are not just an educator and leader but a shaper of the future. Your actions and decisions profoundly impact the lives of those you guide. Go, be the great educator and leader that our future needs.

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2024 J Clay Norton

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A “Teacher Gram” for Sherri Ottis…

26 Friday Apr 2024

Posted by The Book Chamber in Appreciation, Classroom Leadership, Compassion, Craft, Education, Educational Leadership, Empathy, Empower, Encouragement, Expectations, Inspiration, Leader, Leadership, Purpose, Relationships, Resilience, Respect, Students, Teacher Appreciation, Teachers, Value, Wisdom

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Hi, my name is Dave… I’m a Sock Baby and belong to one of Sherri Ottis’ former students. I live in a golf bag and I want to give a shout out to…IMG_3116

After devoting all 25 teaching years at Clinton High, Mrs. Ottis is retiring. She has taught almost everything under the “Social Studies” platform, including psychology, sociology, and a bunch of other classes. Her room is the last on the East End side. Either you are going to her class or leaving the building. Anyway…

IMG_6358The two things that set Mrs. Ottis apart are her pursuit of helping teachers feel valued with Teacher Grams, overseeing this project since 2002, and her sociology class, where students model parenting skills with Sock Babies. That’s where I, Dave, came into the world. So, today, I want to give Sherri Ottis a Teacher Gram tribute, whose dedication to teaching transcends the ordinary and resonates for many other teachers to model.

In the long hallways of Clinton High School, Mrs. Ottis’ impact echoes through the years, leaving an enduring mark on students and colleagues. Sherri Ottis is the epitome of excellence, compassion, and unwavering commitment. She personifies the essence of a dedicated educator. With a nurturing demeanor and an infectious passion for learning (she is also a published author of the book Silent Heroes: Downed Airmen and the French Underground), every day, her classroom is transformed into a sanctuary of knowledge, fostering an environment where students feel empowered to explore, inquire, and thrive. Walking into her classroom, one would think they were entering an “Educational Emporium.” Beyond textbooks and lesson plans, Mrs. Ottis cultivates a sense of belonging, instilling values of empathy, resilience, and integrity in her students’ hearts, a lost commodity, it seems, in the education world today.

Mrs. Ottis shines as an educational inspiration. Her unwavering dedication to her craft and genuine care for her students’ well-being exemplify the essence of educational excellence. Through her innovative teaching methods, boundless enthusiasm, and unwavering support, she ignites a spark that has lighted many a flame for her students, propelling them towards success and self-discovery. But don’t play her; it doesn’t take long for anyone to figure out where you stand. Her value of what education should be and the wisdom she offers, stands at the pinnacle of what educational success is lacking today.

Personally, I will miss Sherri’s subtle wit and common thinking ground. I will even miss her “Pope Leo X’s” Bible she used in our Monday morning Bible study group, and her great “one word, one liner” (those who know, know). We have had many talks and solved most of life’s problems, as if the world would listen to us. I am also grateful for the time I have had being an educator with her, as I am sure many of you are as well, and for the impact she has had on students’ lives and on all our lives, for that matter. A legacy she leaves. Education needs more educators like Sherri Ottis because people like Sherri Ottis are extraordinary educators. Sherri is my teaching colleague and, in many ways, a mentor and a confidant. Most importantly, Sherri is my friend, and I will miss seeing her at the end of the hallways of Clinton High.

Go be a great educator and leader today… Our future needs it…

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2024 J Clay Norton

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The Value of Mercy…

19 Friday Jan 2024

Posted by The Book Chamber in Actions, Compassion, Educational Leadership, Empathy, Empower, Leader, Leadership, Mercy, Teachers, Trust

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With two days out for winter weather, we have been binge-watching the TV series Suits. The other night, this statement was made… “Mercy is from a position of strength.”

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As I heard that, I wondered how often leaders, even educational leaders and teachers, understand what that statement means. I often see many leaders who want to “flex” their leadership because they see it as their strength from the position without knowing how weak it makes them look.

Mercy is often regarded as a virtue associated with compassion and forgiveness. It is often seen as a leadership weakness. However, mercy holds a profound leadership characteristic. Leaders who are “flexing” emphasize authority, control, and managing mindsets. They never seem to understand mercy as a powerful testament to their leadership.

True leadership strength is not just making tough decisions; any “leader” can do that. But the ability to extend understanding and forgiveness shows power. Leaders who exhibit mercy understand the complexities of human nature and the inevitability of mistakes. Most people I know do not mess up on purpose. Why would they? Understanding mercy fosters a culture of empathy, creating an environment where others feel supported rather than fear-driven.

Extending mercy also builds trust. When leaders demonstrate a willingness to forgive and guide, it establishes a culture where others are more likely to admit errors and seek help. Sweeping things under the carpet quits happening, and transparency leads to an openness that contributes to continuous improvement. When members under your leadership feel secure, they are empowered, which helps the entire organization. No one likes walking around on eggshells in fear their ideas don’t agree, fearing severe consequences for every misstep.

Mercy also creates a connection with leadership. Weak leaders do not want this. They have no desire to connect on a deeper level and love their unapproachable mentality. They want loyalty and commitment, but not foster it… And when a conflict comes around…

When leaders choose mercy, a person’s rough road becomes much smoother. This is where growth and possibly healing take place. Not only for the person but for all who are watching, and guess what… they are watching. Mercy given for the right reason, wanting nothing in return, shines the light on the success leadership should be about.

Let’s go fight the good fight of leadership. Someone has to…

Go be a great educator and leader today… Our future needs it…

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2024 J Clay Norton

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