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“Asset-based narrative” – It’s what we need in educational leadership for our schools…

25 Wednesday Jun 2025

Posted by The Book Chamber in Accountability, Achieve, Actions, Advice, Appreciation, Attention, Choice, Culture, Education, Educational Leadership, Effective, Emotion, Emotional Temperature, Empower, Encouragement, Expectations, Idealist, Importance, Know Your Why, Leader, Leadership, Students, Teachers, Trust, Value

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I was sitting in on a dissertation defense a few weeks ago, and the phrase “asset-based narrative” came up. This phrase, it got my head tingling, and I began to think about a connection to educational leadership. So, here’s what I came up with…

In education, leadership is not about what we meant to do, it’s about what we actually do. Good intentions are noble, but outcomes are what matter. Our schools, communities, and students live in the reality of our actions, not in the shadows of our intentions. That’s why we must begin to define leadership through an “asset-based narrative,” one that sees strength, not deficiency, and leads through what is possible rather than what is lacking.

Society often pressures leaders to control the narrative. Headlines, social media, and political climates push school leaders to respond quickly, to spin, to protect optics. But real leadership resists this impulse. True leadership defines the narrative… rooted not in fear or reaction but in clarity, purpose, and evidence of care. It says: “Here is who we are, what we value, and how we’re building something better.”

An “asset-based narrative” invites us to lead through celebration and contribution. It shifts our focus from what educators or schools “aren’t doing” to what they are accomplishing against real odds. It sees teachers as resilient, students as capable, and communities as partners. It reframes setbacks as opportunities to grow, not indictments of failure.

When we define the narrative, we move from defense to offense. We stop chasing reputations and start building legacies. And we do so by aligning our actions with what we say we believe. Because in education, as in life, leadership isn’t measured by the stories we wish had been told, it’s measured by the stories we choose to write with courage, consistency, and hope.

The question is not, “What did we mean to do?” The question is, “What did we do, and how did it build a better story for those we serve?” I think it’s worth taking a look at to see if we can find and define more of what we do in education based on the thought of “an asset-based narrative.”

As you step into your role today, remember that you are not just an educator and leader but a shaper of the future. Your actions and decisions profoundly impact the lives of those you guide. Go, be the great educator and leader that our future needs.

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2025 J Clay Norton

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Stick A Fork in It – It’s Done!

16 Friday May 2025

Posted by The Book Chamber in Appreciation, Educational Leadership, Leader, Leadership, Learning, Teachers, Thankful

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Well, here we are, the end of the 2024-2025 school year…

Another year down, a year wiser, a year older, and another graduating class to remember…

Ecclesiastes 3:1 – “For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven.” The end of the school year marks the packaging of academic efforts, the closure of one phase of learning, and the beginning of another. It’s a time to reflect on the experiences gained, the knowledge acquired, and the growth achieved. It is the time we have been given…

I hope you have enjoyed the blogs this school year. Some have special meaning to me, and the others were an opportunity to write about leadership and actually have people read it… well, I am very appreciative. Thank you.

For our traditional last blog of the year, here are the five most-read blogs from this past school year. Just click on the link to read again or read for the first time…

  1. A Teacher Appreciation and a Tribute to Charlotte Walker…
  2. Yes, Public Schools Should Be Able To Advocate For Themselves…
  3. HB1433 Shows Desperation Breeds Dependence: The Hidden Costs of School Vouchers and School Choice on Mississippi Public Schools
  4. Educational Leadership Insights: Mississippi HB1431 and the Complexity of Consolidating School Districts
  5. The Lost Art of Writing Thank You Notes…

As for my favorite… I’m going with this: Squeezing Every Drop of Potential: Leadership Lessons from a Tube of Toothpaste

Again, I would like to thank the readers of The Book Chamber Blog. Thank you for reading my thoughts, rants, or whatever you might call them. Your comments and feedback are always welcome.

And… As always, A Thank You to teachers everywhere who are in it for the students. You are the reason why education will always have a chance to help society.

If you are wondering what the most read blog is since I have been writing… Here it is… Is the “Leadership Force” strong with you? There must be Star Wars fans out there…

As summer vacation nears, make time for yourself and your family. In the end, that is what is most important. And as always… if all else fails and you need something to do, read a book.

We will pick back up in the fall.

As you step into your role today, remember that you are not just an educator and leader but a shaper of the future. Your actions and decisions profoundly impact the lives of those you guide. Go, be the great educator and leader that our future needs.

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2025 J Clay Norton

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A Teacher Appreciation and a Tribute to Charlotte Walker…

09 Friday May 2025

Posted by The Book Chamber in Appreciation, Classroom Leadership, Education, Educational Leadership, Leader, Leadership, Respect, Servant, Teacher Appreciation, Teachers, Tribute

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Well, it’s Teacher Appreciation Week again. That one week where we recognize the value teachers have that we should be recognizing all year long, but I digress…

So, in keeping with themes from my past blogs during this Teacher Appreciation Week, a thank you to all educators. The value you bring to helping society is always welcomed.

And now, an appreciation and a tribute to a friend who is retiring…

For 34 years, Charlotte Walker has poured her heart, soul, and unmatched intellect into the field of education, leaving an enduring mark on Clinton High School and on generations of students and teachers alike. As a history teacher, she has taught nearly every subject the department offers, with a depth of knowledge and a passion that has made history come alive in her classroom. Currently, excelling in teaching Economics and AP Macroeconomics.

For 16 of those years, she served as department head, leading with a steady hand, quiet strength, and a deep, unwavering support for every teacher under her wing. New and young teachers, especially found in her, a mentor who believed in them from day one. Charlotte made it her mission to support others, always placing herself last.

Beyond the classroom, Charlotte’s leadership showed through the extracurricular programs she championed. For 12 years, she led the mock trial team. She also sponsored the economics trial team and the international summit competition group, both of which regularly placed among the top. Her mentorship helped shape the minds of her students. A master of diplomacy herself, Charlotte is admired not only for her sharp intellect but also for her warmth, patience, and ability to treat every member of the department and Clinton High School as a vital part of the whole. But, being the wise sage she is, never think you could pull something past her. She always knew…

Charlotte has been the epitome of excellence, compassion, and unwavering commitment to the educational mission that the Clinton Public School District welcomes, culminating in this last year as being chosen as Clinton High School’s teacher of the year. Her influence reaches far beyond lesson plans and test scores. She has cultivated a culture of encouragement, integrity, and quiet strength. She has reminded us all what it means to lead not by position but by presence. Also, being a National Board Certified Teacher, she was the touchpoint person and mentor for many who have pursued and earned National Board status at Clinton.

When I first arrived at Clinton, even though I didn’t know Charlotte, she immediately made me feel welcome, even though I was not part of the history department. She extended a genuine friendship, one that both of us will carry far into the future. I will miss the daily dose of Charlotte’s subtle wit and our common thinking ground, especially missing her deep, thoughtful knowledge of Reformed Theology during our Monday morning coffee club Bible study group. We have had many heartfelt conversations and solved most of life’s problems, wishing the world would listen, and her two words at the end of our discussions, “You think?” or telling me, “You’re a good man, Charlie Brown.” I am deeply grateful for the time I’ve spent as an educator alongside her, as I’m sure many of you are as well. Her impact on students’ lives, and on all of ours, is immeasurable. A legacy she leaves.

Education needs more educators like Charlotte Walker because people like Charlotte Walker are extraordinary educators. She is my teaching colleague and, in many ways, a mentor and a confidant. Most importantly, Charlotte is my friend.

As you step into your role today, remember that you are not just an educator and leader but a shaper of the future. Your actions and decisions profoundly impact the lives of those you guide. Go, be the great educator and leader that our future needs.

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2025 J Clay Norton

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The Lost Art of Writing Thank You Notes…

10 Friday Jan 2025

Posted by The Book Chamber in Appreciation, Educational Leadership, Effective, Gratitude, Intentional, Kindness, Leader, Leadership, Maturity, Professionalism, Relationships, Respect, Sincerity, Thankful

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In a world dominated by how people communicate… quick texts and emojis, Facebook Messenger, Instagram, Snapchat, TikTok, or if you are hanging on to your MySpace account, the timeless art of writing thank-you notes often feels like a relic of the past. Yes, I’m old school in many ways, but many things in life are timeless… some things just need to be practiced and maintained. Yet, the simple gesture of writing a thank you note carries profound meaning, connecting us to others in ways technology cannot replicate.

Many will say, “Thank you” upon receiving a gift, and that should be the correct response. However, a “thank you” is also a default response because it seems natural to say. Many people would say this is enough. Others will say that the recipient of a thank you note will just read it and throw it away. However, I believe these are misconceptions. Writing a thank-you note is not about the recipient’s reaction. It’s about the act of expressing your thoughtfulness and acknowledging the other person, which is always worthwhile. I guess my question is, “Why would you not?”

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Here’s why I believe reviving and writing thank-you notes is worth the effort, focusing on their personal touch, intentionality, expression of gratitude, and reflection of maturity.

Personal

A handwritten thank-you note is deeply personal; it is a reflection of you. Unlike generic messages or templates, it requires your time and thoughtfulness. The process of selecting stationery, coming up with the right words, and addressing the recipient shows you value the relationship. A thank you note may stir something and resonate emotionally, letting the recipient know they’re appreciated. You might not ever know what it will mean…

Intentional

Writing a thank-you note is an intentional act. It requires slowing down to reflect on what and why you are thankful for and how to express it meaningfully. This intentional approach goes against almost everything our digitized minds use with the instant gratification of modern communication. A thank-you note says, “I took the time to think about you,” which leaves a lasting impression.

Shows gratitude

At its heart, a thank-you note is a tangible carrier for gratitude. It conveys appreciation. Why? Normally, positive thought, effort, or care is behind a gift or gesture that someone gives. I believe this expression strengthens relationships, as it acknowledges and celebrates the kindness of others.

Maturity

Do not diminish this fact… Writing a thank-you note demonstrates an emotional maturity factor. It shows you understand the importance of recognizing others’ contributions and are willing to invest effort in maintaining meaningful connections. It’s a skill that transcends etiquette, reflecting character and integrity.

As I try to wrap my thoughts around which of the four is the most important…, I guess all four are needed to square the circle… Regardless, reviving the art of thank-you notes can transform relationships. It can bring warmth to a person and possibly to a world that often feels impersonal. As we know, too many people hide behind keyboards anyway…

Since we are coming out of the Christmas and holiday season, I reckon there has to be someone you can extend a thank you note to. All it takes is one note… A few heartfelt words on paper might seem small, but they carry immense power to foster connection and gratitude. To use the SEC words, “It just means more.”

As you step into your role today, remember that you are not just an educator and leader but a shaper of the future. Your actions and decisions profoundly impact the lives of those you guide. Go, be the great educator and leader that our future needs.

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2025 J Clay Norton

Want more Leadership Thoughts? Follow me on… X @thebookchamber or follow the blog directly.

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