I just finished reading Malcolm Gladwell’s The Bomber Mafia, and I was particularly interested in one idea (the entire book is full of fascinating knowledge by the way). Gladwell describes how ideas and memories rarely remain with the individuals who first hold them. Instead, they move, transitive in nature, living on in the lives of others. Though he applies this concept to military visionaries, it got me thinking about the work of educational leadership.

As leaders, the choices we make, the words we speak, and even the ways we handle pressure often become part of the memory banks of those around us, becoming a powerful motivator on how we lead. A teacher remembers how a principal treated staff with dignity during a crisis. A student recalls the fairness of a discipline decision long after graduation. A young educator shapes their own leadership style based on how they once watched a mentor navigate conflict. These moments are not fleeting; they migrate, they live on.

This realization reframes how we can see daily leadership in schools. Schools are not just institutions where knowledge is delivered but also where memories are forged. Those memories are carried forward, reinterpreted, and acted upon in the lives of others. With this thought of transitive action, leadership, then, can become less about immediate outcomes and more about shaping a lasting legacy of influence, one that helps define the climate and culture for the future, trusting the process. 

The sobering truth is that we don’t control which memories will stick. Sometimes a single act of impatience can overshadow months of encouragement. But the hopeful truth is also there: small acts of kindness, humility, and consistency often become the anchors others draw on years later. As I sit here writing, I realize the transitive power of my mentors, how their wisdom lives on in me, how it continues to influence my leadership, and how it extends to others.

Educational leadership, then, is memory-making work. The question for each of us becomes: What memories am I leaving behind that others will live into?

As you step into your role today, remember that you are not just an educator and leader but a shaper of the future. Your actions and decisions profoundly impact the lives of those you guide. Go, be the great educator and leader that our future needs.

Remember… Think Leadership and Be For Others…

©2025 J Clay Norton

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